Not willing to compromise on

This ones pretty easy for me, He has to be a Top where penetrating and breeding are central to Who and how He is, He both needs and wants that. i think it's impossible to separate the physical from o ...

Sat Jun 29, 2024 7:41 pm • 14 Replies • 1888 Views

What do you think of subs owning other subs?

i don't see this as a question of "right" (or "wrong"), or even correct or incorrect. To me, there is no static framework or absolute definition or standard of D/s, it comes down to the individual nee ...

Sat Jun 22, 2024 5:05 pm • 14 Replies • 1870 Views

Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

i'm a critical care nurse in a mid sized teaching hospital. Experience in a hospital setting can (grossly) be divided into two categories:

1) experience with procedures, 'hands on' interventions ...

Fri Jun 21, 2024 6:21 pm • 26 Replies • 2867 Views

Authenticity

Thanks all for your viewpoints. On with business as usual. His "authentic" version of how-i-should-be would have nothing to do with who I am.

Men and their fantasies often leave no room for actual ...

Sun Jun 16, 2024 6:44 pm • 26 Replies • 3166 Views

Word Play: ABCs of Kink

V is for ⬆️

V is for Vibrant vivacious vixens with voracious vaginas

Vilifying vibrant vivacious vixens via voracious vaginas?

Thu Jun 13, 2024 6:32 am • 32 Replies • 2053 Views

Word Play: ABCs of Kink

y'all left out "Q" and "R"

Q is for quickie

R is for release

Wed Jun 12, 2024 5:03 pm • 32 Replies • 2053 Views

Forced tongue worship

A man submitting to a Dominant Woman starts with knowing each other very well. Kink later.

Oral in my view is something I relax and enjoy it ISN'T when the person doing it gets attention.

With " ...

Sun Jun 09, 2024 4:04 pm • 16 Replies • 5490 Views

Clingy Subs

Reading through all the posts on this thread demonstrated to me something most of the people here know: kinks and relationship are individual, not universal, and there is no generic answer to the ques ...

Sat Jun 08, 2024 10:29 pm • 54 Replies • 6173 Views

Not listening to boundries?

Really just underlining what others have said, maybe using a different colors highlighter.

i think "listening" is foundational to relationship, no matter what it's form. i think this person hears, ...

Thu Jun 06, 2024 5:07 pm • 11 Replies • 1377 Views

Improving all aspects of Submission

As i see it, Dom is on the other side of the sub coin. Not a perfect analogy, but i'm not confident there is such a thing as perfection?

i appreciate what MisterAshmodai writes. i believe one ...

Thu Jun 06, 2024 3:40 pm • 7 Replies • 1141 Views