Monogamy

A bit more science:

"...monogamy is usually more apparent, or social, than real, and monogamous animals commonly use two methods to hedge their bets on mate choice. First, they may actually engage ...

Sun Jan 08, 2023 6:47 pm • 63 Replies • 16195 Views

Monogamy

Lots of fun speculation in this discussion. Did a brief search to see if there's some study evidence on the evolution of monogamy. Not sure there is an answer to the question, but it's interesting to ...

Sun Jan 08, 2023 6:07 pm • 63 Replies • 16195 Views

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

It’s impossible for me to not believe in the fundamental goodness of people… even those who think their only way to get ahead in life is to take advantage of others. All I can think is how horrible ...

Thu Jan 05, 2023 2:50 am • 23 Replies • 7831 Views

First Times

Ha, What a fun question! my answer has two parts because i 'lost' my virginity twice (stay tuned).

i came from a religious culture, so both me and my (former) wife were virgins.

my very first ...

Thu Jan 05, 2023 2:46 am • 11 Replies • 3504 Views

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

It’s impossible for me to not believe in the fundamental goodness of people… even those who think their only way to get ahead in life is to take advantage of others. All I can think is how horrible ...

Wed Jan 04, 2023 11:34 pm • 23 Replies • 7831 Views

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

"Succubus" sounds like a kink requiring enormous oral capacity.

Wed Jan 04, 2023 11:20 pm • 23 Replies • 7831 Views

What's a Sadist

i think descriptors like "Sadist" or "masochist," like pretty much every other kink moniker, are general terms that need to be individually fleshed out.

i'm not into pain or a lot of what is pract ...

Mon Jan 02, 2023 11:17 pm • 5 Replies • 2243 Views

Re: What do you enjoy more?

So my questions to the sadists and masochists of The Cage:

Sadists:
What do you enjoy more:
Inflicting pain on your sub and watching the suffering?
Or
Knowing that your sub is enduring the ...

Wed Dec 28, 2022 8:03 pm • 22 Replies • 6777 Views

Re: Mental stability

I also have family I dont want to disown me for my feelings(they are heavily religious). Any advice on how to cope would be most welcome.

i do not think there is an easy or simple answer to your ...

Tue Dec 27, 2022 8:22 pm • 6 Replies • 5523 Views

Re: Highly experienced sub struggling on how to introduce, e

I'm a alpha female sub, highly experienced and educated in the life. I was mentored by a bdsm old guard certified Master. I have found the man of my dreams but he has little to no knowledge of bdsm. ...

Tue Dec 27, 2022 4:17 am • 24 Replies • 7525 Views