Seeking advice on encouraging my partner to explore a more dominant role.

Hearty ditto to those who advice against manipulation and advocate for honest, open communication.

i do not believe the manipulative approach will actually evoke what either of you want or need bec ...

Thu May 23, 2024 9:09 pm • 4 Replies • 2648 Views

Adult Bookstores/Movie theatres/Arcade

Yes, they do exist. squirt.org is an ap originally designed for locating such places. It's a mostly gay ap, but the places listed are not exclusively gay. In Oregon, having sex in an arcade is legal. ...

Thu May 23, 2024 8:48 pm • 15 Replies • 3378 Views

Something you Enjoy, and something you Don't.

Being subtly Dommed

Being forcefully dommed

Fri May 17, 2024 6:01 pm • 8 Replies • 1234 Views

Pro this Pro that

A very expensive theatrical production...

This is what this goes on in this lifestyle really, at its heart, it's all just theatre?

i think it depends on the participants. Being different isn't ...

Mon May 06, 2024 12:22 am • 12 Replies • 2315 Views

Domlyness

I would think each dom like each sub would have their unique "Attitude". Since we are all different. I understand the lifestyle thing but even in the lifestyle we all are unique with different wants a ...

Sun May 05, 2024 6:20 pm • 13 Replies • 3152 Views

Domlyness

Disclaimer: while i believe there are general attributes to point us, i don't presume to make a universal definition or standard... these are my personal notions of "Dom."

Dom descriptors that tri ...

Sat May 04, 2024 7:05 pm • 13 Replies • 3152 Views

Butt Plugs and Anal Play

It's kinda funny how many cultures attach an "ick" factor to the but. i heard a funny joke once: "if God had intended us to have sex, He'd have given us an asshole." The reality is, all of our sex o ...

Fri May 03, 2024 10:05 pm • 21 Replies • 6782 Views

What's In Your Bed?

a laptop, Kindle and remote control, a linen napkin and a towel for when a FB visits, 3 pillows.

Fri Apr 26, 2024 4:26 pm • 21 Replies • 2826 Views

Pics of Dicks, Tits, Cunts, & Asses

Can't sleep and reading this thread hasn't made me any drowsier... I thought it would be a chorus of women complaining about men who think dick pics are as perfunctory a part of an introduction as "hi ...

Thu Apr 25, 2024 5:14 pm • 49 Replies • 10425 Views

Vanilla dating

Lol, it’s so shallow and toxic. Freaks me out.
No it’s not easy. I’m trying to figure my exact role too in a Doms life that will fill me that same happiness.

Sub Baby Love

*it’s so shallow and ...

Sun Apr 21, 2024 7:07 pm • 26 Replies • 5567 Views