Sounding

I have always felt that an activity is neutral, that headspace and intent give it a top/bottom vibe etc. So a sub could be ordered to do all manner of things that could be seen as being the sort of th ...

Wed Feb 16, 2022 9:47 pm • 9 Replies • 3069 Views

Sounding

Not sure what you are asking for here? i read your profile and it appears you look for a woman to be with sexually?

This is just my perspective, from a gay total bottom with some sub, so i am not s ...

Wed Feb 16, 2022 8:44 pm • 9 Replies • 3069 Views

Finding a mate

I hope I read this post correctly, in that you're wondering why marriages and "sex as taboo" are still the foundations of relationships even though they don't function well per your research/thoughts. ...

Sun Feb 13, 2022 7:51 pm • 4 Replies • 2059 Views

Classic films

Re non digital special effects that have stood the test of time?

One of the best i can recall is the parting of the Red Sea in Ten Commandments. Fast forward, Raiders of the Lost Ark had some g ...

Sat Feb 12, 2022 6:44 pm • 5 Replies • 1383 Views

Re: beauty

can anyone tell me, what beauty really matters? face beauty or beautiful soul?

To me it is, apparently, both. We are affected by visual stimulus. But also by tone. i've wondered about how a blind ...

Sat Feb 12, 2022 6:10 pm • 17 Replies • 5138 Views

Finding a mate

This is sort of a core and common topic on this site. Even if one is not looking for a mate, most here are interested in relationship with kinky elements.

One of my take aways, in my journey/proce ...

Sat Feb 12, 2022 5:48 pm • 4 Replies • 2059 Views

Inspiring My Dom

How to inspire?

You could maybe try writing stories that include you and He and all the stuff you fantasize about. Put it down i story form that He can read. like erotic literature, except it's pe ...

Wed Feb 09, 2022 5:00 pm • 15 Replies • 4928 Views

Kink and vulnerability

i think it takes stamina to maintain vulnerability vs feeding off past moments of openness and the memory of that or those experiences. It takes stamina to stay open, but i think mutual dedication to ...

Fri Feb 04, 2022 4:58 pm • 11 Replies • 3868 Views

“I have a special set of skills”…

Being open, vulnerable.

Fri Feb 04, 2022 4:50 pm • 37 Replies • 10435 Views

How to recognise a Dom and show I’m a sub

i don't think this is necessarily an easy task (i.e., recognizing a Dom....), because to me one of the most important qualities of a Dom is patience. Patience to me is not necessarily the mark of a Do ...

Thu Feb 03, 2022 4:25 pm • 21 Replies • 8767 Views