Subspace?

i've experienced sub space on very few occasions, maybe only once. I went there though and found my way back on my own, though He did end up getting a piece of my heart.

I personally believe that ...

Tue Dec 07, 2021 7:30 pm • 14 Replies • 3436 Views

Subspace?

i've experienced sub space on very few occasions, maybe only once. i spent a weekend with a Dom i met vacationing in Palm Springs and He managed to regress me (age wise). It was a profound experience, ...

Tue Dec 07, 2021 6:27 pm • 14 Replies • 3436 Views

Name 3 of your favorite fetishes and 3 that you would like to try

All receiving (total gay bottom )

Core stuff:
1. anal penetration, insemination, impregnation
2. affectionate degradation
3. mind fuck/control

Wants (really these seem connected to and are ...

Tue Dec 07, 2021 6:09 pm • 35 Replies • 9505 Views

serve or please??

Wow, love this question and topic of discussion. It's a core topic for me and i think there are some wonderfully thoughtful responses.

For me, it is all about the connection and bond between me and ...

Mon Dec 06, 2021 6:20 pm • 23 Replies • 5712 Views

Verbal Humiliation

For me, verbal humiliation is one of the deep bonds i can have with an intimate Top/Dom/Husband. For a long time, the paradox of it was a mystery for me, but i think i have come to understand it.
...

Sun Dec 05, 2021 7:00 pm • 31 Replies • 10509 Views

What is BDSM/kink to you?

To me "kink" is just a blanket term for individual, usually sexual/sexualized need/desire that doesn't fit the cultural 'norm.' I found this at etymology online:
kink (n.)
1670s, "knot-like contr ...

Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:46 pm • 11 Replies • 3279 Views

Dark Fantasies...

Great thread. Funny, how we are all on a kink site called "The Cage," talking about our fears of being and expressing who we are.

my "dark fantasies" get divided into two basic categories: "gross" ...

Sun Nov 28, 2021 5:12 pm • 27 Replies • 8830 Views

Men, what you need to know.

I absolutely agree with you there. Men in our society are taught that showing emotion is weak - other than anger. Boys get their feelings hurt and are told “be a man!” Punch someone because they’r ...

Mon Nov 22, 2021 9:15 pm • 93 Replies • 20304 Views

Men, what you need to know.

Oh, hey, i have a couple (of: "men, what you need to know")

1). Many (if not most?) of our notions and attitudes about women fly under the radar, i.e., are unconscious and part of our cultural co ...

Mon Nov 22, 2021 8:55 pm • 93 Replies • 20304 Views

Predictive Text Fun

"I'm a critical and my favorite kink is issues"

Mon Nov 22, 2021 5:38 pm • 14 Replies • 2061 Views