Re: Consensual Psychological Play?

Last night, over a nice glass of Vodka and juice, a psychologist/friend made some interesting points about emotional trauma, healing and the BDSM lifestyle. I’d like to share a key question that spark ...

Sun Oct 25, 2020 7:12 pm • 32 Replies • 13371 Views

Re: When subs get burnt out

I get it... a lot of subs treat this site like a dating app. They bounce around this site form person to person with little to no real expectation they’ll meet a true Dom. That mentality affects us al ...

Sun Oct 25, 2020 6:21 pm • 16 Replies • 7219 Views

Lonely lifestyle.

i do not think the 'search' is really a choice? To stop searching doesn't take the need away for me, it just sublimates it, or suppresses it?

i think there is a part of us that is hungry, often st ...

Sat Oct 24, 2020 7:59 pm • 3 Replies • 2552 Views

Am I cut out for this?

Just one persons point of view here, not purporting to be the bearer of 'truth.' With that preface....

i think you will find most of us here belief stuff like "dom" or "sub" is part of our nature, ...

Sat Oct 24, 2020 6:35 pm • 20 Replies • 9420 Views

Platonic(ish) D/s

To me what you describe feels like traditional dating in a bygone era, and is still exercised in some religious cultures. Two people get to know each other without sex. After a period of time, they ei ...

Sat Oct 24, 2020 5:18 am • 10 Replies • 8506 Views

A little bit lost and worried

A couple of thoughts to add to the discussion.

This is not a controlled environment, sort of like a city street? Sure, there are 'laws' as in any city, but there are still muggers, democrats, rep ...

Wed Oct 21, 2020 4:55 am • 59 Replies • 26585 Views

Good TV series of Femdom

Am watching "The Haunting of Bly Manor" a great ghost story, and episode 8 threw in another fine surprise... A Domme.

Tue Oct 20, 2020 4:09 am • 14 Replies • 32855 Views

A Doms 'protection'

As i think of this, it becomes more complex than when i conceived of posting it. It will be great to read everyones thoughts and feelings on this. All thoughts and comments are welcome from either sid ...

Mon Oct 19, 2020 9:52 pm • 3 Replies • 1913 Views

Gang bangs!!

Thanks for your comments ElizaEmma,

i never cease to wonder at the variety of expression Dom and sub natures can have. For me, i don't see myself as a toy, but in this case my desires/needs lined ...

Mon Oct 19, 2020 4:01 am • 13 Replies • 5660 Views

Gang bangs!!

A gang bang can have all sorts of angles to it. Um, i don't know if there is such a thing as "purely sexual," and that sounds a wee bit holier than thou to me. i have yet to separate my thoughts and ...

Mon Oct 19, 2020 2:14 am • 13 Replies • 5660 Views