Re: Is bdsm healing?

I have changed so much since I have join this community. I have some hard times in my past. 4 years ago i found my husband...he had committed suicide. Overnight i found myself alone with a 1 year old ...

Sat Oct 10, 2020 6:50 pm • 29 Replies • 6452 Views

Private parts in profiles

Here's my opinion. I don't like penis pictures when they are sent to me specifically without my asking for them. On a site like this I expect to see them and don't mind! (I like it most of the tim ...

Sat Oct 10, 2020 5:52 pm • 119 Replies • 22862 Views

Private parts in profiles

Personally, i don't see a problem with 'private parts' pics on a BDSM site. i see our sexuality as a part of who we are and i don't think it's inappropriate on a site like this. If that's all a perso ...

Thu Oct 08, 2020 3:53 pm • 119 Replies • 22862 Views

Is submission really a gift?

A symbiotic relationship? So where does love. Honor and respect come in?

Symbiosis is so selfish. Love is giving. I want to be in a love relationship not a mutually dependent relationship.

i ...

Tue Oct 06, 2020 3:55 pm • 41 Replies • 7716 Views

What's it called when...

sub top?

Fri Oct 02, 2020 3:34 pm • 24 Replies • 8159 Views

Love at first sight....

The Thinker wrote:

"First time I laid my eye on President Trump, I knew that I would love to "love" him.

Anally.

Does that count?"

Depends on who you are talking too.

Thu Oct 01, 2020 8:43 pm • 23 Replies • 6013 Views

Love at first sight....

I had it two times... First I saw the guy from behind. It was like I have known him before, like I simply recognize him which wasn't possible. I was 20, he far older and ignored me. The second time wa ...

Thu Oct 01, 2020 8:30 pm • 23 Replies • 6013 Views

Submission and Monogamy ~

If you are having sex with other men , i wouldn't label your relationship as "monogamy."

It also seems to me that as a cuckold, his cravings are a part of that dynamic and giving in to them wou ...

Thu Oct 01, 2020 1:11 am • 9 Replies • 3923 Views

BDSM without the DSM - thoughts?

i grew up in a religious culture that was infused with the notion that "love" was a sacrifice on the part of the giver, that one should somehow give and give and give without thought of return. i rea ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 11:33 pm • 43 Replies • 10319 Views

BDSM without the DSM - thoughts?

The Thinker wrote: "That said, if the submissive feels that the rules are such that (s)he cannot comply, or that she will fail constantly, she shouldn't accept such rules. If the Dominant feels that s ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 12:35 am • 43 Replies • 10319 Views