Inexperienced sub looking for advice

i believe anyone , on either side of the D/s dynamic, needs to learn who they are and be true to their self. The second thing, i think, is one has to learn how to be open and communicate who you ar ...

Mon Oct 19, 2020 1:54 am • 18 Replies • 11354 Views

Cumming Inside You

On the gay side of the fence, so many of the comments here apply. Even though i'm a guy, impregnation goes beyond having a baby. To me it aligns with being marked. When a guy cums in me, to me it is ...

Mon Oct 19, 2020 1:03 am • 39 Replies • 15361 Views

"Rope Bunny"

Thank you for the thoughtful, open responses! Great input, hope it keeps coming.

One of the things i love about a complex community like this is how it exposes my hidden presumption. It's so easy t ...

Tue Oct 13, 2020 11:50 pm • 10 Replies • 5741 Views

"Rope Bunny"

Thanks slavebilly, that’s great, looking for general perceptions of the terms, that works

Tue Oct 13, 2020 6:55 pm • 10 Replies • 5741 Views

"Rope Bunny"

i have little to no experience with ropes, binding or being bound. i recently experienced being bound and gagged virtually by a "rigger."

i want to know how others perceive the two terms. Here's ...

Tue Oct 13, 2020 6:15 pm • 10 Replies • 5741 Views

Halloween Horror Challenge

Not sure if this one goes under the 4th or the 25th, maybe either?

ParaNorman

Tue Oct 13, 2020 5:26 am • 177 Replies • 31311 Views

Song that describes you or your feelings

Cannot sum up in just one song... but here is one of them "Lay Me Down" by Crosby and Nash

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NgIDLSvnENM

Mon Oct 12, 2020 8:05 pm • 451 Replies • 103711 Views

Re: I need advice on loving God/Jesus and loving being a Sub

How to you fully practice the BDSM lifestyle and also be religious? How do you juggle your desires that arent what God wants for you?? If your whole existence is based on loving and believing in God/J ...

Mon Oct 12, 2020 7:46 pm • 16 Replies • 6318 Views

Strange nite time comments

30 years is a long relationship... in a sense, you have grown up together? This is just my experience, i don't assume it's universal.

my experience has been that in long relationship (i was marrie ...

Sun Oct 11, 2020 7:42 pm • 10 Replies • 4913 Views

Attraction and profile pictures

I noticed that too - that many dom's had no profile pic.
I assumed it went along with the mysterious theme.
I've toyed with the idea of editing a masquerade mask onto mine for that purpose - plus I ...

Sun Oct 11, 2020 7:05 pm • 63 Replies • 29469 Views