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Fri Oct 02, 2020 3:34 pm • 24 Replies • 10662 Views

Love at first sight....

The Thinker wrote:

"First time I laid my eye on President Trump, I knew that I would love to "love" him.

Anally.

Does that count?"

Depends on who you are talking too.

Thu Oct 01, 2020 8:43 pm • 23 Replies • 7733 Views

Love at first sight....

I had it two times... First I saw the guy from behind. It was like I have known him before, like I simply recognize him which wasn't possible. I was 20, he far older and ignored me. The second time wa ...

Thu Oct 01, 2020 8:30 pm • 23 Replies • 7733 Views

Submission and Monogamy ~

If you are having sex with other men , i wouldn't label your relationship as "monogamy."

It also seems to me that as a cuckold, his cravings are a part of that dynamic and giving in to them wou ...

Thu Oct 01, 2020 1:11 am • 9 Replies • 4980 Views

BDSM without the DSM - thoughts?

i grew up in a religious culture that was infused with the notion that "love" was a sacrifice on the part of the giver, that one should somehow give and give and give without thought of return. i rea ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 11:33 pm • 43 Replies • 12895 Views

BDSM without the DSM - thoughts?

The Thinker wrote: "That said, if the submissive feels that the rules are such that (s)he cannot comply, or that she will fail constantly, she shouldn't accept such rules. If the Dominant feels that s ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 12:35 am • 43 Replies • 12895 Views

BDSM without the DSM - thoughts?

That's not simple question for me to answer, and i'd wager it has many and varied answers, depending on the individual

i'm a part of this community, but often feel odd man out for several reasons. ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 9:40 pm • 43 Replies • 12895 Views

BDSM on a "Need to Know" basis?

i think the key is your "Reason for my underlying curiosity would be due to having this 'want' to share attitude with a few people close me..."

No one knows who we are unless we reveal our self to ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 6:26 pm • 8 Replies • 3908 Views

Whats your thoughts on hypnosis??

When i was younger and trapped in a religious mind set, trying to not be who i am, i would fantasize about a guy who would kidnap me and take me to live captive on his remote estate. All the things i ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:52 pm • 20 Replies • 9317 Views

A wonder happend but I dont know what to do

Just read your profile. You do not have much experience and you have a pretty extensive list of kinks, things you are interested in, but i wonder how many of them you have tried? i like the idea of ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 3:44 am • 19 Replies • 7090 Views