Re: What do you do for foreplay?

Phew, very personal post, here goes. I have a suspicion that, for me, arousal always starts in the head. I need that mental stimulation. Physical stimulation by itself does basically nothing. ...

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Thu Jul 23, 2020 7:33 pm • 13 Replies • 5992 Views

Third party personals.

Yep, this is a thing in BDSM (though i am glad The Cage does not permit it).

When i consider it, it's not all that odd in context. There are some in the BDSM community who espouse the idea that th ...

Thu Jul 23, 2020 6:01 pm • 6 Replies • 3300 Views

Extreme Degrading

@ Reiddean

Would you expand on that thought a little? (aaaand you're fucking hot)

Wed Jul 22, 2020 10:27 pm • 16 Replies • 11020 Views

Spanked to tears

i feel like i don't have any masochist in me, at least on a physical level? i sometimes wonder if that didn't get conditioned out of me because as a sub child (and i can see retrospectively how both ...

Wed Jul 22, 2020 9:10 pm • 16 Replies • 12111 Views

Who's chasing who?

Not sure my input is desired. i don't qualify in the "gender specific" group of "Domminat Women-Submissive Men," but i do qualify as "anyone," so i'll take that as an "okay."

This intertwines wit ...

Wed Jul 22, 2020 8:36 pm • 13 Replies • 7336 Views

Gay and Bisexual (or other non heteronormative variants)

i love The Cage community. i am enjoying the many serious and open discussions that happen here, and the wonderful people participating.

i'm starting to feel like the only gay guy here though. i kn ...

Wed Jul 22, 2020 7:31 pm • 17 Replies • 4352 Views

About the amount of messages that you recieve

i'm a gay sub. Call me cynical, but i suspect if you removed the some of the pics from your profile, you'd weed out quite a few. Unless that is how and why you like to attract someone, in which case, ...

Wed Jul 22, 2020 2:24 am • 14 Replies • 5810 Views

Extreme Degrading

i almost started another post for this, but don't feel restricted from asking this here? Forgive me if this is a side road, not my intent.

i'd like to read peoples thoughts and feelings on what the ...

Tue Jul 21, 2020 8:53 pm • 16 Replies • 11020 Views

Are you a submissive/dominant in all areas of life or primarily sexually?

Biassertive?

i guess we try or like to put things in black or white terms because it makes it easier? i'm sexually sub, and it seems mostly sub otherwise, but i'm not 'slave.' Cleaning your hou ...

Mon Jul 20, 2020 11:28 pm • 41 Replies • 12596 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

LMAO, i got a good laugh from that The Wild One.

As an aside, i loved the BBC Sherlock Holmes series with Benedict Cumberbatch and Martin Freeman. i have a crush on Benedict and loved how the ser ...

Mon Jul 20, 2020 7:09 pm • 477 Replies • 139043 Views