Is there so much information that it can obfuscate spontaneity

Great discussion, thanks for starting it Badgirlblues (and i like that you used the word obsfucate to elucidate).

There's some discussion of spontaneity on another recent thread here: https://theca ...

Wed Jul 08, 2020 8:50 pm • 9 Replies • 3610 Views

Re: Creating a Dom?

I’m a new sub and I want my husband to dominate me. I’ve brought up the topic and we’re very open sexually, but I’m not sure where to tell him to start. I’ve discussed what I like, what I’m comfortabl ...

Wed Jul 08, 2020 7:53 pm • 13 Replies • 6291 Views

The Approach - able Question

Love this discussion.

i do not think the onus should be on one side or the other to make the approach. Approaching can be hard, it always carries the risk of rejection, and if one is considering h ...

Tue Jul 07, 2020 7:48 pm • 11 Replies • 5420 Views

Apologies

Just a quick note.
This is my first forum post. This medium might be a little fast paced for my nature to thoughtfully respond, but I am resonating on all of your responses. Thank you.

tallslend ...

Mon Jul 06, 2020 8:58 pm • 30 Replies • 10969 Views

Re: Apologies

I have run in to two men in my life who emphatically do not believe in apologies.
One says that life is too short for apologies. The other says that they are typically empty of heart and just servin ...

Mon Jul 06, 2020 8:23 pm • 30 Replies • 10969 Views

Collaring

i know this is different from the norm, but i see collaring as someone who identifies a kink in me that they are able to sort of captivate and control. i know there are physical parallels or component ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 5:42 am • 16 Replies • 7137 Views

Total Power Exchange (TPE)

So what you guys are talking about is what I would call a common sense override. Stuff like that off course use your common sense, especially emergencies. And for that reason, I would agree 100% all t ...

Sat Jul 04, 2020 9:16 pm • 14 Replies • 10246 Views

Total Power Exchange (TPE)

" 'Why yes honey I'd love to tell you what outfit to change into after the baby threw up on the old one, but I'm in a meeting and the boss is glaring at me' or 'I was going to call and ask your permis ...

Sat Jul 04, 2020 7:21 pm • 14 Replies • 10246 Views

Sleep

i don't understand the question, would you explain a bit more of where you are coming from?

As for me, i'm a critical care nurse and spent my week working on the Covid unit. Ironically, from the ...

Sat Jul 04, 2020 6:40 pm • 10 Replies • 6308 Views

Total Power Exchange (TPE)

To me, TPE is often a misnomer. i'm not convinced that one can have TPE 24/7, but that it can be had within that frame? I.e., that TPE is not a constant, but rather an in the moment thing, where TPE ...

Sat Jul 04, 2020 6:22 pm • 14 Replies • 10246 Views