What is a submissive really?

"You bring a very interested point to light ! So what is the prototypical submissives? I don't believe such a thing exists. The same can be said of Dom's too of course!
My Special Middle is very Int ...

Thu Apr 30, 2020 10:45 pm • 30 Replies • 11188 Views

Slave/Master Contract

my random thoughts and feelings (only one guys of course):

i'm not keen on static contracts as i see people and relationship as fluid, and contracts tend to be static. But i get having a foundation ...

Thu Apr 30, 2020 8:53 pm • 9 Replies • 7806 Views

Re: What is a submissive really?

It was brought to my attention recently that I am opinionated (Look out everyone...we got an observant one here). Anyone who knows me isn't going to be surprised by this. The statement was made by som ...

Thu Apr 30, 2020 6:11 pm • 30 Replies • 11188 Views

Healthy level of independence?

"So one thing I’m wondering about is if you lose too much independence when submitting (which, I know, is the point) and how much that is affecting your identity as a person. "

Thank you for your t ...

Thu Apr 30, 2020 5:30 pm • 1 Replies • 2266 Views

What is a submissive really?

Thank you for asking the question, will be fun to read the answers.

i don't think there is a right or wrong answer to many of the things that are often attributed to either Dom or sub. Though the ...

Thu Apr 30, 2020 7:34 am • 30 Replies • 11188 Views

taking pain

i appreciate HisLovely's advice, i never had directed it that way. i have sub in me, but do not consider myself masochistic, so that usually gets dileneated in the 'vetting' process.

"Pain" is a c ...

Thu Apr 30, 2020 3:41 am • 8 Replies • 5130 Views

Anal Sex Help!

Hmm. i don't have a woman's anatomy, but i have a lot of experience as a bottom guy lol. i've been anally oriented since about 8 years old when neighbor friend showed me an enema nozzle and excitedl ...

Wed Apr 29, 2020 9:27 pm • 6 Replies • 3539 Views

Your view on setting a time constraint - boundaries

"All my Dom/Daddy/Sir have treated me like gold, for I am a well trained sub of 30 yrs."

Wow JoyBoxxe, loved your whole response. Awesome and encouraging to read. It seems so many Dom's are into p ...

Wed Apr 29, 2020 1:08 am • 8 Replies • 4157 Views

Your view on setting a time constraint - boundaries

i like your question/topic, it seems pretty important to me.

i don't think there's a simple either or answer to this question, that like with most things D/s (relational?), it's going to be depende ...

Tue Apr 28, 2020 9:43 pm • 8 Replies • 4157 Views

Scammers, liars, nefarious people. BEWARE!

Scammers are common so common, i can't remember the last time i went on a 'dating' site and was not approached. For me, they've become more of an annoyance than a threat. It seems about 95% them a ...

Tue Apr 28, 2020 3:54 pm • 24 Replies • 14506 Views