Podcast/Training

Hello again,
for a year now I have been listening to the podcast Sex Nerd Sandra. Not sure if anyone is familiar with that, but many of the episodes touch on bdsm or have guest speakers who are into ...

Wed May 12, 2021 4:02 am • 2 Replies • 2133 Views

A little bit of peace and quiet

I am not a little in any way that I’m aware of, but I often am in awe of the innocence that is cultivated and shared. That’s the best I can attempt to describe it. The closest I can imagine such innoc ...

Sat May 08, 2021 3:20 am • 8 Replies • 2622 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello. I definitely didn’t think to introduce myself when I first joined. Now I’m back to make friends and soak in all of the forum information.

Thu Apr 29, 2021 6:25 am • 3159 Replies • 997322 Views

Communicating your likes and needs as a submissive

There is already so much good information listed above, but I wanted to touch on something that I don’t think has been mentioned yet.

You said you feel no satisfaction in getting what you want and ...

Tue Apr 20, 2021 4:19 am • 27 Replies • 7691 Views

Things you wish you had known....

Very thought inspiring topic!

My advice would be, “It’s not just him”.

I completely placed my daughter’s father on a pedestal because I felt as if we had a deep connection. I felt as if he was ...

Mon Apr 19, 2021 5:03 am • 40 Replies • 11827 Views

Personal Ad for Subs to Subs

Hello, I’m not an OG to the site, but I’d love to make sub friends 😊

Mon Apr 19, 2021 3:01 am • 19 Replies • 4667 Views

Encouraging my Dom

Feeling like you know how to push your submissive partner's sexy buttons and leave them impressed and fulfilled is an incredible confidence builder. It can help him feel free do demand what he wants ...

Mon Apr 19, 2021 2:16 am • 11 Replies • 5168 Views

Encouraging my Dom

I can personally say whenever I have said "I know and have experienced more than him," it has led me to putting my sassy pants on and to topping from the bottom, and ultimately led to the downfall ...

Mon Apr 19, 2021 1:57 am • 11 Replies • 5168 Views

Encouraging my Dom

Thank you, I do see that approach as being very encouraging. I am his first experience with almost all toys, and different kinds of play so we have conversations beforehand, and somewhat planned play. ...

Mon Apr 19, 2021 12:52 am • 11 Replies • 5168 Views

Encouraging my Dom

Thank you, and thank you for your reply.

Is he a Dom? Yes, and we are in a dynamic. He has however commented that he felt like a fake Dom because of his lack of experience in the lifestyle/dynamic ...

Mon Apr 19, 2021 12:46 am • 11 Replies • 5168 Views