Discouraged

There is a lot of fakes, scams, role players and liers online. But the same goes for meeting AFK. It's just easier to hide online.
I've met real, genuine and wonderful people online. The first sub I ...

Tue Nov 24, 2020 5:41 pm • 28 Replies • 11559 Views

When it goes wrong

If somebody does something or agree to something out of willingness I would say they have consented.
You're not making sense.

Tue Nov 24, 2020 3:06 pm • 29 Replies • 7678 Views

When it goes wrong

I totally not agree with you.
As I stated already, not everyone in BDSM does consent.
And I once again state if they don't it's not BDSM. I've done CNC for years. Some consider this on the more extr ...

Tue Nov 24, 2020 2:43 pm • 29 Replies • 7678 Views

When it goes wrong

I didn't get a quote button on your post but I''ll try anyway

BDSM is about control. Not everyone in BDSM does things with consent. None consent situations happen. Most often willingly. Both eyes ...

Tue Nov 24, 2020 2:04 pm • 29 Replies • 7678 Views

When it goes wrong

With all due respect I don't think this happened. Unless you actually know this person in real life and has seen proof of this in form of newspaper reports or court files she is taking you for a ride. ...

Tue Nov 24, 2020 1:07 pm • 29 Replies • 7678 Views

Age-Gaps - Attracting Interest in Older Men - Not Reciprocated

As one of those older Doms who sometimes contacts younger subs (even if I don't think I've ever contacted OP) this gives me two thoughts.
1. How can you expect people to respect a limit if they don't ...

Mon Nov 23, 2020 5:43 pm • 25 Replies • 10675 Views

Cheesecake & Bedroom Openness

I would ask myself 3 questions.
1. What do I need?
2. What do I want?
3. What are my limits?

Then I would ask the other person. If her limits are my needs then it is a dealbreaker. If her limits ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 4:02 am • 8 Replies • 3020 Views

Ever worried you’ll end up alone?

I have never really been alone. But when I got out of my 16 years long marriage things didn't look very bright. I felt old. I felt used up and the world had changed a lot while I was living in my bubb ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 3:52 am • 79 Replies • 25915 Views

Large girls

First of all I'm sorry this happened to you and for you feeling bad about it.

That said I see things a little bit different from the "norm" in this thread. We don't know enough to pass judgement on ...

Sat Oct 03, 2020 3:34 pm • 31 Replies • 20162 Views

Re: Brainless subs

The more you know, the more you're in control. A sub wants to be controlled and this can risk not GRASPING that control themselves. With their OWN hands. When they need it more then ever.
I'm not sa ...

Fri Sep 11, 2020 9:35 pm • 4 Replies • 2834 Views