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Fri Dec 18, 2020 8:46 pm • 34 Replies • 16478 Views

Is it just me or do others enjoy their smell?!

I have always been a big fan of that particular scent and taste, except when my girl has had too much garlic. The food or drinks, or anything we ingest has some bearing on the subject. Having a girl t ...

Fri Dec 18, 2020 8:41 pm • 9 Replies • 2634 Views

Enamored Dominant or Just a Lunatic?

Going forward, I wish that when someone young or whoever they may be asks for advice or guidance that there be more consideration for the person (who might feel dumb or scared to ask already) . But lu ...

Sun Nov 22, 2020 10:42 pm • 95 Replies • 36892 Views

Enamored Dominant or Just a Lunatic?

I am curious how this all played out in the end. It is a very good instructional scenario on how quickly emotions can overwhelm common sense, and possibly just how dangerous it can be. I suspect the ...

Sat Nov 21, 2020 10:16 pm • 95 Replies • 36892 Views

The difference between submissive and slave?

"I understand and respect the fact that the on-line interpretation and “version” of what a slave is, is very different to what an in-person slave is, and sure, an on-line slave is not much different t ...

Mon Nov 16, 2020 12:01 am • 17 Replies • 6343 Views

The difference between submissive and slave?

I have been with a Dom and a Master and I do enjoy being a sub more. It is different to everyone, but I think Kara is very close.

To me, it is having a voice every day. It is knowing that my Dom w ...

Sun Nov 15, 2020 12:12 am • 17 Replies • 6343 Views

The difference between submissive and slave?

There’s no one definition for these terms, so it’s always individually defined. Generally speaking people use slave to mean some level of deeper commitment, but there’s no hard and fast rule.

One e ...

Sat Nov 14, 2020 11:57 pm • 17 Replies • 6343 Views

The difference between submissive and slave?

As a sexual masochist, I find a slave role in my short term interludes part of the sexual thrill of pain and humiliation. A genuine "sub" is into a deeper aspect of "the lifestyle". Definitely somet ...

Sat Nov 14, 2020 9:07 am • 17 Replies • 6343 Views

The difference between submissive and slave?

The way I like to explain the difference is that a submissive will strive to become the best version of themselves for their Dominant, whereas a slave will become whatever their Master wants.

I als ...

Sat Nov 14, 2020 8:45 am • 17 Replies • 6343 Views

The difference between submissive and slave?

Someone else, but I forgot who, said that the difference is that a slave decides at the beginning of the dynamic and a submissive decides each time something is asked. You can fetishize things or add ...

Sat Nov 14, 2020 8:35 am • 17 Replies • 6343 Views