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Butt Plugs and Anal Play

Very well said and I have always found that when you're with a partner, copious amounts of foreplay prior to copious amounts of lube to be a winning combination.

Fri May 17, 2024 8:26 pm • 21 Replies • 7285 Views

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Sculpther

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Absolute Beginners

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Butt Plugs and Anal Play

Advice Needed

How is it that a kinkster gets hooked up with vanilla in the first place?

Who misrepresented what during the courtship?

Did neither of you discover that the other was dancing to a different drum ...

Mon Feb 27, 2023 4:42 am • 43 Replies • 9919 Views

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Sculpther

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Absolute Beginners

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Advice Needed

It has been my experience that people who are either submissive or dominant, are that way because of certain traits in their personality.

Some people are natural born leaders, because it seems to b ...

Sun Feb 12, 2023 5:39 am • 43 Replies • 9919 Views

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Sculpther

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Absolute Beginners

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Advice Needed

TPE as abuse

@Sculpther
Do You consider TPE dynamics to be abusive? What about blood play, sending daily naked and vulnerable images in a LDR, being tasked to use scarification to etch someone’s name into you ...

Fri Sep 02, 2022 5:02 am • 26 Replies • 5968 Views

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Sculpther

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Generally Speaking

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Abuse veiled as protocol

Sorry, I disagree with protocol being veiled as abuse. If the list of things in this post are experienced by anyone it is abuse, pure and simple.

Two reasons I say this, the first being consent ne ...

Tue Aug 30, 2022 4:54 am • 26 Replies • 5968 Views

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Sculpther

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Generally Speaking

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Abuse veiled as protocol

Hypnosis

As I was reading through the comments, I almost quoted and, responded to some individual comments. One referring to individuals who practice hypnosis as part of the bdsm world as being an irresponsib ...

Mon Aug 15, 2022 11:13 pm • 42 Replies • 11647 Views

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Sculpther

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Generally Speaking

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Hypnosis

At the risk of pissing off the generalization police, I think I am hearing a bunch of superstition, fear, and very little solid or educated information being posted.

I believe that lumping any grou ...

Sat Aug 13, 2022 5:01 am • 42 Replies • 11647 Views

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Sculpther

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Generally Speaking

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Hypnosis

Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

I have posted on the matter of ghosting before, my take on it is that most of the people who ghost are cowards, they eschew confrontations of any kind and while it might be the "proper" thing to do, v ...

Thu May 27, 2021 9:42 pm • 16 Replies • 6429 Views

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Sculpther

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Generally Speaking

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Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

Help me please

If the trauma you experienced as a younger person was said to be your fault, which is often what abusers say in order to excuse themselves, you are probably experiencing guilt because you see enjoying ...

Mon May 17, 2021 6:50 pm • 10 Replies • 6796 Views

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Sculpther

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Maledom

Topic

Help me please

About online dom/sub sessions

In my humble opinion, I believe someone should write a book entitled " bdsm for dummies" complete with red flag lists for both dominant and submissive with a chapter about a "relationship as co-operat ...

Sat Jul 18, 2020 8:56 am • 16 Replies • 17485 Views

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Sculpther

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Maledom

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About online dom/sub sessions