Thoughts on BDSM Bars

I went to a BDSM bar in Austria one time. Its a cool idea, I do like it, but obviously alcohol consumption needs to be moderated to avoid excessive risk. I'd not engage in BDSM activities, especially ...

Mon Nov 02, 2020 2:17 am • 25 Replies • 6051 Views

Ever worried you’ll end up alone?

I've always had terrible luck with women in general and BDSM is obviously very taboo which makes finding a partner even harder but I still try to keep hope.

I do feel like it would be hard for me t ...

Mon Nov 02, 2020 2:09 am • 79 Replies • 18682 Views

Random: Favorite Horror movies?

Favorites I've seen have been Overlord, and I am Legend.

I want to watch the Exorcist at some point. Not seen it yet but have heard its really scary. A Quiet Place looks good too.

Mon Nov 02, 2020 1:40 am • 18 Replies • 4206 Views

Would you ever tell them?

I am usually really careful about who I tell and I'm not super public about my fetishes, but I have definitely told some people I feel I can trust. Mostly very close friends, or people who admitted th ...

Mon Aug 10, 2020 3:34 am • 58 Replies • 17034 Views

Discouraged

I've run into the same thing. I've never had good luck meeting people irl or online, and its definitely harder when you wanna find someone kinky. Even if you have otherwise realistic expectations, peo ...

Wed Jul 29, 2020 8:16 pm • 28 Replies • 7183 Views

Fetishes VS Kinks

I've always thought of kink as being more general and fetish being more specific. Kink is just anything outside of "conventional" sexuality whereas fetish generally refers to a particular interest a p ...

Thu Jul 09, 2020 8:10 am • 7 Replies • 3041 Views

What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

For me it'd be the following, in no particular order

Someone who is/has:

Intelligent
Ambitious
Encouraging
Kind
Shares my passion for politics/philosophy
Good sense of humor (especially dar ...

Thu Jul 09, 2020 8:03 am • 119 Replies • 28763 Views

First BDSM experiences

My first experience was with a girl I was close friends with in High School. Basically what happened was one time she was over at my place when my parents were not home. After chatting a bit and playi ...

Mon Jun 22, 2020 5:41 am • 8 Replies • 3924 Views

Bitter endings...

I know what you mean! I've not had this specific issue but when dating online I constantly run into people who are obvious bots and scams. Luckily I know enough about these matters to not click on the ...

Fri May 22, 2020 11:18 pm • 8 Replies • 2730 Views

use of a "electric dog collar" to control submissive

I agree in being weary of health issues. There's risk in everything and for most people I'd say its worth giving it a try, but its definitely best to avoid this if you have a health problem that makes ...

Fri May 22, 2020 11:14 pm • 56 Replies • 51909 Views