How To Find The Right Sub For You

The two of you should be able to function together outside of the D/s context.

Mon Sep 12, 2016 8:56 pm • 9 Replies • 9251 Views

Protecting Your Privacy Online

I don't put up any pictures of myself and don't give out any personal details that could be used to identify me. As for the site, well I don't really expect all that much from them.

Fri Sep 09, 2016 9:18 am • 2 Replies • 4539 Views

If You Die, Who Gets Your Equipment And Toys?

I have no plans at all, so I guess it would be up to my Fellas to decide. That being said, it's not like we have anywhere near the value of toys and stuff, my Fellas are very do it yourselfy types so ...

Sat Sep 03, 2016 10:36 pm • 19 Replies • 21901 Views

Easing into it

Take the time to figure out what about it all appeals to you, and then compare notes to make sure you are on the same page. If one is more into a service dynamic and the other into a brat/punishment t ...

Sat Aug 20, 2016 3:38 am • 4 Replies • 6858 Views

Caged In By Stereotypes

In day to day wear I am a jeans & t-shirt girl, and when we play I am usually naked.

Sat Aug 20, 2016 3:36 am • 3 Replies • 5307 Views

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

The problem with this question is that it presupposes that there is a single BDSM lifestyle. There are as many BDSM lifestyles as there are people into BDSM.

Fri Aug 19, 2016 11:11 am • 18 Replies • 19919 Views

24/7 D/s - Fantasy Or Achievable?

I couldn't do it 24/7, there are just too many things I need to have done now that we have a baby, so there are times the Fella has to do what I tell him to do.

Fri Aug 19, 2016 11:07 am • 5 Replies • 7851 Views