How sexual Does a BDSM relationship need to be?

@BabyTGirl and @Redamancy

Yes, it can be hard, at times to recognize a Dom from an HNG. But, please read my very early Blog entries:

"Responsibility" -- The nature of a Dom
"Commitment" -- The ...

Thu Jun 25, 2020 12:22 am • 12 Replies • 4819 Views

How sexual Does a BDSM relationship need to be?

A common misconception and fallacy about BDSM is that: "It's all about sex". In fact many times, it's not AT ALL about sex. And, this makes for a good measure of a potential partner.

If you are a ...

Wed Jun 24, 2020 7:44 pm • 12 Replies • 4819 Views

Is it normal....

Short answer: YES

Long answer:
Of course it's normal. It is *because* you have to be in control so much in other parts of your life that you seek an alpha who will take that control over you. Na ...

Tue Jun 23, 2020 8:52 pm • 7 Replies • 2742 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

♫ Somewhere overweight people grow up tall
There's a place where they've never heard of cholesterol!

Allan Sherman

Wed Jun 17, 2020 3:18 am • 477 Replies • 122682 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

Well... It's happened. One of my cats jumped up on my desk and broke my henway. I've had that henway for more than 30 years. I've searched online for another henway, and it's just not to be found. ...

Tue Jun 16, 2020 10:17 pm • 477 Replies • 122682 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

@Delly

"I wish for a meatier shower"...

So wrong. in so many ways. It's jest in pun.

Tue Jun 16, 2020 7:32 pm • 477 Replies • 122682 Views

"Insta-dom"...?

@SkyV

How does one get experience in any other advent of life? Of course, COVID has put the kibosh on a lot of things, but once this nonsense is over, find a local dungeon, or BDSM group. Get invo ...

Sun Jun 07, 2020 5:06 pm • 12 Replies • 5948 Views

One or t'other...?

As "timinsmarts" said, the value of money, (in terms of happiness), declines rapidly at some point. It's not a hard $50,000, but rather at the point where the lack of money is not causing continual s ...

Sun Jun 07, 2020 3:26 am • 8 Replies • 3088 Views

The Cost to Be the Boss

Yep. Like a new puppy, disorganized, chaotic, and knocking things over with his over abundance of exuberance.

There's nothing wrong with inexperience, per se. As long as the dom in question st ...

Sun Jun 07, 2020 3:20 am • 6 Replies • 2808 Views

Which Are You?

For what it's worth:
SANGUINE PHLEGMATIC CHOLERIC MELANCHOLIC
2 0 5 1


Not sure I agree with the names of these personality types, ho ...

Sun Jun 07, 2020 3:18 am • 33 Replies • 10125 Views