*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello

I don't know that I can introduce myself here any better than I already have in my Forum Topics: "Responsibility", "Commitment" and "The Journey".

I'm new to the "The Cage", but not at all ...

Mon Mar 30, 2020 10:44 pm • 3116 Replies • 954116 Views

Nickname For My Hubby?

Instead of a nickname, you could just address him with a title: "Husband", or "My Husband" works quite well.

Good luck!

Mon Mar 30, 2020 9:47 pm • 11 Replies • 7028 Views

Marriage

@Sammi Babi Uwu,

Sounds to me that you're handling this correctly and safely. I absolutely adore the trust you have in him considering the trauma you experienced. Good Girl!

I would add, hope ...

Mon Mar 30, 2020 9:30 pm • 11 Replies • 4470 Views

Dominance and Submission, (with apologies to Blue Oyster Cult) :)

Nice cat

He is. He's about 5 years old, and still learning *how* to cat, I'm afraid. Clumsiest cat I've ever seen, trips over his own shadow, falls off the sofa, fails to land on his feet. Just ...

Mon Mar 30, 2020 7:33 pm • 10 Replies • 4414 Views

The Journey

Please do what you can to avoid that particular melancholy because it isn't true. I bet that if you sat down with both of them right now they would give you a piece of their minds (respectfully, of c ...

Mon Mar 30, 2020 7:04 pm • 16 Replies • 5940 Views

In a sub/slave r 2 personalities, person & thing, only one is in charge but I need both

On the reverse side of that, as a submissive I am both a Sub and a Little. My Dom is a Daddy Dom so half of me is completely satisfied. However, there's another side of me that stays suppressed. How c ...

Mon Mar 30, 2020 6:31 pm • 12 Replies • 5606 Views

Dominance and Submission, (with apologies to Blue Oyster Cult) :)

Dominance and submission in this context are extremely subjective.

Yes, but aren't they *always* so?

There can be no TRUE way to measure either by anyone else's lens but the owner who is making ...

Mon Mar 30, 2020 6:02 pm • 10 Replies • 4414 Views

Dominance and Submission, (with apologies to Blue Oyster Cult) :)

For me it is that simple.
No a D or M type should not attempt to dominate everyone . That is non consensual.

Yes, exactly.

You are allowed to dominate ONLY those that you have negotiated with ...

Mon Mar 30, 2020 5:44 pm • 10 Replies • 4414 Views

The Journey

Thank you all for the kind words.

My hope is that this account was helpful to anyone considering TPE, or even something rather less intense.

We, (family), had planned a memorial service for De, ...

Sun Mar 29, 2020 12:03 am • 16 Replies • 5940 Views

Dominance and Submission, (with apologies to Blue Oyster Cult) :)

So back to your scale. When I was married, I managed the finances, I managed the household, I planned pretty much everything we did. My (then) husband didn't have any money sense and I had to remain i ...

Sat Mar 28, 2020 11:13 pm • 10 Replies • 4414 Views