Disclosing your kinky/BDSM side to your friends & family

I told my little sister(she’s 23). She is the only person in my vanilla life that knows. This is how the conversation went.

“Listen I have to tell you something. And I’m only telling you so that s ...

Fri Nov 06, 2020 4:16 am • 6 Replies • 2259 Views

Confused. S/M

Thank you @Bunnie for the article. It worked for me I felt it was very informative for me. Thank you everyone for your replies I seem to have a bit better understanding now.

Mon Oct 26, 2020 3:01 pm • 16 Replies • 5171 Views

Confused. S/M

Thanks everyone for your replies, I’ve found them all to be thought inducing and gave me a perspective on how to refine my search in knowledge around the topic.

Mon Oct 26, 2020 5:35 am • 16 Replies • 5171 Views

Confused. S/M

Thanks for your reply. It was not my intention to offend anyone with what I said. I’m just ignorant to S/M as a whole and there’s not a ton of literature that I’ve found on this site to help me with u ...

Mon Oct 26, 2020 4:14 am • 16 Replies • 5171 Views

Confused. S/M

Honestly there’s a negative connotation there for me, because of my own ignorance(I mean no malice to those who may read this). When I think of a masochist/sadist I immediately go to all of the hard c ...

Mon Oct 26, 2020 3:50 am • 16 Replies • 5171 Views

Confused. S/M

Im a new into the community and life has been crazy as of late so I’ve not really interacted here, but here goes.

About a week ago, I played with a friend and while the scene was exactly what I ...

Mon Oct 26, 2020 1:02 am • 16 Replies • 5171 Views

Brand new and exploring - where to start?

Read through a lot of peoples blogs. @skyrich as a lot information I found to be useful when I was looking for me and my soon to be ex husband were on the journey you are on now. Read the different fo ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 9:15 pm • 2 Replies • 1905 Views

Tips and tricks?

Here’s a list of my triggers that could be yours also. It’s at least a place to start for you look at what could be yours.
*lack of sleep
*allergies
*hormones
*I clinch my teeth in my sleep with ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 9:05 pm • 7 Replies • 1932 Views

Submissive Friends

I’m new also, I don’t have any advice or anything to add but feel free to message me ❤️

Fri Apr 24, 2020 6:09 am • 15 Replies • 5535 Views