How best to reply (sub female)

Hi there!

I don't have a ton of experience in the actual nitty gritty of D/s, but I do have quite a bit of experience with greetings. My first piece of advice is do not feel obligated to reply to ...

Wed Feb 22, 2023 10:03 pm • 33 Replies • 7615 Views

How best to reply (sub female)

Lay It On The Line

-Triumph

Wed Feb 22, 2023 5:20 am • 33 Replies • 7615 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

I am stuck on the "how are you?" being a turn-off. (Part of my hyper-focus issue)

It might be trite, but it could be a genuine query. The profile gives on overall picture of someone, but it rarel ...

Mon Feb 20, 2023 11:50 pm • 113 Replies • 16492 Views

being rude

Slavehandler,

You are correct in one thing. You don't know me or you wouldn't have spent all that time writing YOUR ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT ME.

*Ignoring questions is rude in any context of life.*
...

Mon Feb 20, 2023 2:27 am • 35 Replies • 7119 Views

being rude

Slavehandler,

You are correct in one thing. You don't know me or you wouldn't have spent all that time writing YOUR ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT ME.

*Ignoring questions is rude in any context of life.*
...

Sun Feb 19, 2023 10:31 pm • 35 Replies • 7119 Views

being rude

Slavehandler,

"However, ignoring dominant and submissive this is really just conversational ethics we are talking about in which you want to talk to someone and have a conversation, so my reply is ...

Sat Feb 18, 2023 8:48 pm • 35 Replies • 7119 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

I will generally ask for phone nr after a few messages back if I like the person enough to focus on them. As I don't want to pay premium if I am putting effort into someone already, so it is just ...

Sat Feb 18, 2023 5:25 pm • 113 Replies • 16492 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

I will generally ask for phone nr after a few messages back if I like the person enough to focus on them. As I don't want to pay premium if I am putting effort into someone already, so it is just ...

Sat Feb 18, 2023 3:35 am • 113 Replies • 16492 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

I am stuck on the "how are you?" being a turn-off. (Part of my hyper-focus issue)

It might be trite, but it could be a genuine query. The profile gives on overall picture of someone, but it rarel ...

Sat Feb 18, 2023 3:25 am • 113 Replies • 16492 Views

Getting to know someone

I'm not sure if this is a mistake exactly, but it's something that makes it hard for me to develop a relationship with a dom...

When I meet a dom and he doesn't act like one. When I say doesn't act ...

Sat Feb 18, 2023 3:08 am • 19 Replies • 3561 Views