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I don't believe I said anything about Solaces'd comment and what others have to think about it.

I expressed my phone thinking and it had everything to do with him chastising inst ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 3:44 am • 48 Replies • 11533 Views

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I'mME

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I confess in hindsight there was likely a way to communicate I was more on her side in her grief. Though pain is a terrible thing, it does not benefit anyone to broad cast a belief that men are manipu ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 3:38 am • 48 Replies • 11533 Views

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I'mME

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This is a forum where people can comment on what the question, which of course can lead down some side roads.

Where it becomes toxic is when someone takes another's words and turns them into somet ...

Fri Oct 28, 2022 5:02 am • 48 Replies • 11533 Views

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I'mME

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We are working through it.

Honeyaey,

He apologized then? And has a a plan for going forward?

Thu Oct 27, 2022 12:26 am • 48 Replies • 11533 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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Being a sub is synonymous with being vulnerable and emotionally dependent (to a point). This is the basis of submission and a dom's job is to support that vulnerability and dependence amd even to enco ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 1:32 pm • 48 Replies • 11533 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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I do ask and he just tells me I’m being needy and ignores me more. Which I don’t like.

Honeymaey,

Hi, how long did you know him, how long before he asked you to be in a dynamic?

I will tel ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 1:30 pm • 48 Replies • 11533 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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New sub

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Red flags or just not cut out for it?

I’m so sorry this happened to you Diaaa. It’s a lot to process, and I’m glad you’re getting help with that and learning to set healthy boundaries.
Everyone has said almost everything that occurred t ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 12:49 pm • 34 Replies • 10611 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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Red flags or just not cut out for it?

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Red flags or just not cut out for it?

Wed Oct 26, 2022 12:48 pm • 34 Replies • 10611 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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Red flags or just not cut out for it?

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Red flags or just not cut out for it?

Diaaa,

I had some typos, I hope you were still able to figure out what I wrote.

I reread your post several more times, and I see that you did know him before. I would not say y'all were friends ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 12:43 pm • 34 Replies • 10611 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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Red flags or just not cut out for it?

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Red flags or just not cut out for it?

@Diaaa,

Oh my goodness. I'm sorry that you experienced this and from what I am reading between the lines, probably a lot more that you are not sayinf from past relationships.

I'm very much with ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 12:08 pm • 34 Replies • 10611 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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Red flags or just not cut out for it?