How to find the right DOM

msfergy,

I often wonder at supposed grown ups who use the block button when they are the ones who contacted a person first. Someone who employes silence against another person is not a person who ...

Fri Sep 16, 2022 9:52 pm • 42 Replies • 17557 Views

One month in and struggling

Sartorialsass,

One month is a very short amount of time to meet someone, play with them, and now be owned by them.
This is not exactly an example of ENM, so I will ask you what have you done in ...

Fri Sep 16, 2022 1:30 am • 16 Replies • 4036 Views

Re: ImMe

Dear ThatsSirTou,

Firstly, i am a bottom and by protocol, would Not answer a question or speak on behalf of a TOP.

i CAN provide my small perspective (while still free , for whatever its wort ...

Thu Sep 15, 2022 3:44 am • 28 Replies • 10715 Views

Training a submissive

Dear ThatsSirTou,

Firstly, i am a bottom and by protocol, would Not answer a question or speak on behalf of a TOP.

i CAN provide my small perspective (while still free , for whatever its wort ...

Thu Sep 15, 2022 1:48 am • 28 Replies • 10715 Views

Social Accountability

Love this post!

So- i dont bother attempting to validate my relationship to the outside world.
To me, that is pointless.

If someone "likes" me they will attempt to validate my relationship ...

Wed Sep 14, 2022 3:05 am • 18 Replies • 2976 Views

Re: Social Accountability

I hadn't noticed this topic. Let me know if there is a thread already. And please lend leniency in typos. Typing on a phone is a real bitch 😆 The synopsis being social accountability for evaluation of ...

Wed Sep 14, 2022 1:31 am • 18 Replies • 2976 Views

Social Accountability

Thank you for words

IKR  The Library yes has erotica and story's some d/s books but some are online you have to look up from a store or blog.
Then again could be the magic school bus going on a f ...

Tue Sep 13, 2022 8:16 am • 18 Replies • 2976 Views

Dom vetting - why or why not?

Great discussion. I am a newbie so I have a Protector (someone I trust a lot) so I don’t get in over my head, which would be way to easy to do given how much I don’t know. My Protector doesn’t talk ...

Tue Sep 13, 2022 7:34 am • 46 Replies • 10568 Views

Re: GREAT question... WHO vets the vetters!

And who vets the vetters?

The vettees! LMAO

For me, it is simple and obvious, BUT I know for others it may not be the same, or liked or agreed with... to each their own.

For ME, I vet!!! NO ...

Tue Sep 13, 2022 7:24 am • 46 Replies • 10568 Views

Re: PERFECTLY said...

THIS!!! ⬆️⬆️⬆️

When I felt I needed or wanted a protector I went to a friend that was experienced in the lifestyle, someone I knew for a LONG time, someone I trusted GREATLY, AND who truly KN ...

Tue Sep 13, 2022 7:17 am • 46 Replies • 10568 Views