Advice

Welcome to the Lifestyle

The best book for the beginner is 62 questions for your Dominant by Makai...
OI have not seen that in awhile.

Fri Aug 26, 2022 5:40 am • 28 Replies • 5032 Views

Advice

Thank you everyone! It's nice to have a place to ask questions and see different views from others. Thanks again for the resources mentioned above!! I hope to learn a lot!

You may wany to find som ...

Fri Aug 26, 2022 4:57 am • 28 Replies • 5032 Views

How to find the right DOM

I, too, am so sorry that you had to go through that experience. It is so painful to meet a person who we believe understands us and our needs like no other just to be disgarded like a worn out pair of ...

Thu Aug 25, 2022 9:08 am • 42 Replies • 17543 Views

Re: Your Thoughts Count!

Geesh - how many times in the last 45 yrs have I heard similar stories from women!

A respectful Dominant man is not just after your tail, we are out there on the Internet! ladies do some homework ...

Thu Aug 25, 2022 9:06 am • 42 Replies • 17543 Views

How to find the right DOM

A lot of the feedback already mentioned is good, sound advice. Also, go slowly....talk to people but don't assume every Dom that lands in you mailbox is going to be the one. Maybe just as important, ...

Thu Aug 25, 2022 9:04 am • 42 Replies • 17543 Views

How to find the right DOM

FlavaVirago

Bunnie nailed it.

Many guys (most?) want a virgin and in the absence of a sexual one, they seek virginity in another form. Just as a vanilla guy will seduce a virgin into bed and t ...

Thu Aug 25, 2022 8:59 am • 42 Replies • 17543 Views

How to find the right DOM

Though your initial experience was not as you may have hoped for I agree with others that you should not be discouraged.

Life is meant to be "lived" not pre-ordained or pre-destined. That doesn't ...

Thu Aug 25, 2022 8:51 am • 42 Replies • 17543 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

‘What makes you ignore messages on here?’

The fact that I have the attention span of a squirrel with ADHD, in a room full of disco balls.

All I need is to see a fly and I'm, ''Ehat was that, aga ...

Wed Aug 24, 2022 8:44 am • 119 Replies • 26987 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

@I'mME,

I'm sorry to hear your experiences in trying to talk to Doms has been so poor, I assure you that we do (and indeed should) answer questions asked of us.

Don't let them get you down.

M ...

Wed Aug 24, 2022 12:24 am • 119 Replies • 26987 Views

Old vs new guard

This is easy.


Old guard BDSM folks are dead.

The concept is you start as an s type and "earn" ypur way to being a D type.


This is often mystified but often problematic.

You don't h ...

Mon Aug 22, 2022 10:27 pm • 82 Replies • 15771 Views