Verbal Humiliation

Yes it is a fetish; those who do not find the words and phrases to be an actual turn on qd those into it do, will be upset, angry, probably furious , and signalling the start of the end of that relat ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 5:20 am • 31 Replies • 10751 Views

Tights

I love tights, I am very cold natured in the winter. I mean tights not pantyhose.

But the naughty in me turns them into something that looks similar to nylons and garters.

It all is dependent ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 5:14 am • 17 Replies • 4290 Views

I’m a switch in a poly relationship

How do you know that you are a Switch?

Mon Jun 27, 2022 5:09 am • 5 Replies • 1159 Views

Old vs new guard

As I just finished working out which means I am somewhat feeling primal and jocular, I will note of the entire bunch responding (definitely including me) not one of us is or ever was directly Old Guar ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 5:00 am • 82 Replies • 14512 Views

Old vs new guard

Hello lovely!

I too have ran into a handful of Dominants who claimed to be apart of the Old Guard. To be honest whenever I asked what that meant, none of them would produce an answer that satisfied ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 4:52 am • 82 Replies • 14512 Views

Old vs new guard

Oof. I've been watching this thread, trying to decide if I want to weigh in, and the sheer amount of misinformation in this thread compels me to.

I identify as leather and have been a part of hous ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 4:44 am • 82 Replies • 14512 Views

Old vs new guard

I know Leather Folk in probably close to two dozen communities around the US in well over a dozen states and I've been part of the BDSM community for over 20 years now... Its a pretty safe bet that my ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 4:38 am • 82 Replies • 14512 Views

Old vs new guard

Something I’m a little unsure of is why it matters if “Old Guard” or “traditionalist” ways are strict or rigid. Some people like structure and strictness and rules and rigidity and tradition.
It get ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 4:35 am • 82 Replies • 14512 Views

Old vs new guard

Old Guard came from the those that started leather clubs back in the late 1940 early 1950. The Old Guard were men who came back from WW2 and missed the comradery of military service. They formed mot ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 4:29 am • 82 Replies • 14512 Views

Old vs new guard

Honestly... I'd be wary of someone touting "old guard".
Kink us customizable and there is no "right" or "wrong" way to be a sub.
A lot of "old guard" comes from the beliefs in the gor books. Which ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 4:28 am • 82 Replies • 14512 Views