Do you discuss prior relationships before you play with some

I'm very new and just wanted to know if most Dominants try to understand a submissive's past relationship before heading into play. Also do submissives like to know about a Dominant's past relationshi ...

Thu Nov 12, 2020 1:59 pm • 10 Replies • 3652 Views

How do I guide my Sadism?

I am fairly new to BDSM. Before truly engaging in the community and lifestyle, I would watch vanilla porn occasionally (not the biggest fan of porn in general) and eventually the video suggestions wou ...

Sat Oct 03, 2020 3:49 am • 7 Replies • 2549 Views

Re: I desperately need advice

Hey Raven, I am a new Dom with little experience currently on the verge of probably breaking up with my sub but I am saying something because everyone's views and responses gave me some clarity a few ...

Thu Aug 06, 2020 6:11 am • 19 Replies • 5446 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

Please walk on , and don't look back.
She never should have compared or even mentioned her prior relationships the way she did. If she genuinely cared for you, she would have been only about you. Wi ...

Thu Aug 06, 2020 4:39 am • 32 Replies • 12272 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

I think we both agreed on what abuse meant. We used it in the sense of being truly abused (non-consensual) and abuse that I gave her (consensual) meaning impact play. Love is something we actually ...

Thu Aug 06, 2020 4:26 am • 32 Replies • 12272 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

There is another possibility here that you may not discover or acknowledge for years. She is lying about her past relationships, in order to suck you in and make you want her. Typical "Damsel in Dis ...

Thu Aug 06, 2020 4:25 am • 32 Replies • 12272 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

I think we both agreed on what abuse meant. We used it in the sense of being truly abused (non-consensual) and abuse that I gave her (consensual) meaning impact play. Love is something we actually ...

Thu Aug 06, 2020 4:25 am • 32 Replies • 12272 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

Wow, tuff and complicated situation, i am sorry.


i'd suggest couple counseling. There are so many angles here, i believe it would be impossible to give specific input without a good overview o ...

Tue Aug 04, 2020 1:21 am • 32 Replies • 12272 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

Welcome to Hell, Ricccardio. We hope you enjoy your stay.

https://youtu.be/vcmjDPDOk7c

I don't know if anything I'm about to say will actually be any "help." Or at least the kind you are looki ...

Tue Aug 04, 2020 1:05 am • 32 Replies • 12272 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

Theres a lot going on here but from what you said you are probably best to move one. That doesn't feel good but it is what you need to hear.

I'm very troubled by your use of the word 'abuse' true B ...

Tue Aug 04, 2020 12:54 am • 32 Replies • 12272 Views