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Sat Apr 26, 2025 4:39 am • 144 Replies • 19359 Views

Friendship within the Lifestyle

I have always found friendships within the lifestyle to be enriching for all involved. Much like in the vanilla lifestyle, there is the capacity for toxic relationships that hurt the group dynamic and ...

Thu Mar 13, 2025 8:24 am • 7 Replies • 591 Views

Confused

Are you actually using oral service as punishment, or is it more of an immediate means of establishing intimacy when you are upset, and potentially feel vulnerable in the safety of your relationship? ...

Thu Mar 13, 2025 8:08 am • 5 Replies • 473 Views

Is fear a kink?

There is a distinction between fear and dread. Fear is an instinctive response that can be initiated simply and without serious repercussions, and can actually be achieved with effective role play. Dr ...

Sat Feb 08, 2025 8:55 pm • 21 Replies • 1828 Views

How does a dom want boundaries/limits presented

Even if you have a litany of hard limits, it is important that you share them thoroughly. Glossing over hard limits for the sake of not overwhelming a potential partner or to facilitate a non-complime ...

Mon Feb 03, 2025 9:28 am • 6 Replies • 479 Views

How does a dom want boundaries/limits presented

Depending on how you qualify limits (hard vs soft, and how firm you consider the boundaries applied to each (some people see soft limits as opportunities for growth, etc)), it is imperative that you s ...

Mon Feb 03, 2025 9:24 am • 6 Replies • 479 Views

Is fear a kink?

Fear is absolutely a kink (or, at least, close enough to qualify in the awkward realm of how we define things). I have been utilizing the fear kink to great effect for almost two decades (fear kink is ...

Sat Feb 01, 2025 10:14 pm • 21 Replies • 1828 Views

Physical attraction

I consider physical attraction important, at least insomuch as any potential partner is putting a comparable amount of effort into their physical appearance; working out, maintaining a healthy diet, a ...

Tue Jan 14, 2025 6:12 am • 24 Replies • 1851 Views

Trust

For me, building trust is reliant on a balance of competance, integrity, and proactivity. Competence and integrity are subjective as their manifestation should fit the needs of the dynamic, but prett ...

Mon Jan 06, 2025 6:59 am • 16 Replies • 1436 Views

Is it just me?

A big part of the reason I've remained on the Cage for as long as I have had been that it seems like a community that does a good job policing itself to keep the scammers at bay, unlike other sites th ...

Mon Jan 06, 2025 6:32 am • 9 Replies • 899 Views