On losing a sub

For a while now, I have lived an atypical lifestyle that, for a variety of reasons, is difficult for most of my partners to maintain. Despite this, I have had (and continue to have) a fairly constant ...

Sun May 05, 2024 12:09 pm • 8 Replies • 409 Views

Low effort messages from dudes

As a rule, I usually send messages that reflect the effort the intended recipient put into their profile.

With that said, I usually prefer to send longer, individualized, and thoughtful messages. ...

Wed May 01, 2024 8:35 am • 12 Replies • 574 Views

Authenticity

Ideally, this is a constructive assessment of how deeply you are influenced by social presumption as opposed to your raw, internal drives.
There are two problems with taking this at face value.
Wi ...

Tue Apr 09, 2024 1:59 am • 17 Replies • 849 Views

Do you block or have you been blocked?

As far as I can recall, I have not blocked anyone. I usually just end any ongoing conversation or refrain from starting one if someone is not to my preference.
I've been blocked by a few people, nev ...

Tue Apr 02, 2024 6:19 am • 62 Replies • 3686 Views

Let’s get the facts straight

I’ve found an effective method for dealing with the particularly persistent among them to tell them you only “serve” the old gods. Hint at sacrifice, perhaps mention you only get off during blood ritu ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 5:10 am • 29 Replies • 2233 Views

Making the first move

I usually make the first move when interested, though I am not opposed to the alternative. I tend to be pretty picky and have a lot of specific criteria for a potential partner, so I find it easier if ...

Wed May 24, 2023 7:20 am • 26 Replies • 3712 Views

Heart Profile

Simply put, I heart profiles to indicate an interest. If my profile is hearted in kind, I will usually message and see if there is more to build on.

Thu Apr 20, 2023 7:06 am • 23 Replies • 2908 Views

Men who pose as dominant males

I'm neither gay/bi nor am I speaking from the point of view of a submissive, but having taken part in various Dom(me) forums and groups, and having seen a lot of well intentioned Dom(me)s either flake ...

Fri Apr 07, 2023 11:59 pm • 11 Replies • 2380 Views

(1 of 2) DOMs...I would love to hear more..

Indications of open-mindedness and emotional maturity. It doesn't matter if you've been here for ten minutes or you are celebrating your centennial, you picked your interest up from somewhere, and it ...

Fri Apr 07, 2023 11:32 pm • 2 Replies • 813 Views

Monogamy

I've taken the time to read and re-read (much to my own sensible protestation) and all I've drawn from the text (aside from a newfound disdain for gratuitous verbosity) is blatantly critical judgement ...

Thu Mar 30, 2023 3:54 am • 63 Replies • 9278 Views