being a sensitive submissive can be very hard

People are naturally designed to care for one another. We are social creatures, and find the most fulfilment in emotional connection.

Despite this, many of us buck against the drive to establish em ...

Sun Nov 24, 2024 5:44 am • 7 Replies • 1712 Views

Assertiveness issues

Confidence in your technical skills is a different animal to confidence in your assertive nature, though, as you are pointing out in your comment, it is still part of the gestalt.

Technical expert ...

Sun Nov 10, 2024 8:06 am • 9 Replies • 1834 Views

Assertiveness issues

First and foremost, this is going to be exponentially more difficult if your partner refuses to help you or, at least, maintain an open mind during your development. The only good thing that will come ...

Sat Nov 09, 2024 8:29 pm • 9 Replies • 1834 Views

Distance and travel

I regularly travel from Michigan to Pennsylvania, South Dakota, and California to see my partners. The shortest period of time I've spent talking to someone before traveling to see them was about two ...

Fri Nov 08, 2024 3:30 am • 19 Replies • 3330 Views

Forum Fightclub

This thread really took a turn.

Tue Nov 05, 2024 3:42 am • 162 Replies • 40237 Views

Do people actually read the profile?

There will always be people who do not read your profile. That's just part of the overall experience. Many try to take the easiest way to meeting their wants.
Considering those who do read profiles, ...

Sat Oct 26, 2024 10:44 pm • 10 Replies • 2359 Views

Feel free to tell me to fuck off

Am I missing something?

Sun Oct 20, 2024 4:55 am • 25 Replies • 3407 Views

Jeeze

I have noticed an abundance of intentionally fake participants across all spectrums and motivations (whether that be taking money from the desperate or ignorant, trying to get out of having to deal wi ...

Wed Oct 16, 2024 2:37 am • 36 Replies • 6171 Views

Is it a kink or fetish? And is there a difference :3

You're kind of in a gray area with this one both in how you would define vanilla and being drawn to the act itself. It seems that you would consider anal sex a non-traditional sex act, so it would cou ...

Thu Oct 03, 2024 5:32 am • 14 Replies • 6923 Views

Does anyone want something serious anymore?

As the last couple portions of this most recent comment seem to be aimed at my advice, I'll rebut by saying that at no point did I suggest that anyone change their definition of loyalty or commitment. ...

Tue Oct 01, 2024 3:25 am • 40 Replies • 6511 Views