Poly-tensions with same time-space

Jealousy or envy is a natural part of any poly endeavor, and while the typical goal is to try and gain control over how these feelings affect you or the other participants, there is no guarantee that ...

Mon Jul 25, 2022 7:55 am • 19 Replies • 2758 Views

Poly-tensions with same time-space

I believe I understand, though please correct me if my response doesn't seem to line up with the question.

There is a certain level of unlearning that may need to be done when approaching a poly si ...

Mon Jul 25, 2022 7:47 am • 19 Replies • 2758 Views

BDSM and Zodiac Signs

Sagittarius/Capricorn (winter solstice) Sadist Dom.

Mon Jun 20, 2022 8:23 pm • 78 Replies • 19686 Views

Poly, Swing, Groups, more than couple (?)

The primary difference between poly and swing is that, in a poly situation, the aim is to cultivate full-on, lasting relationships with each new partner. In a swing scenario, the aim is generally to j ...

Sat May 21, 2022 7:26 pm • 6 Replies • 1282 Views

another alternative to sir thread

I have made it a part of my process to create a title and name specific to each partner I have. Something developed over the course of getting to know them, before stepping into the role of ME/them. I ...

Wed May 11, 2022 7:25 am • 27 Replies • 3812 Views

Lack of fetish representation

While there is little support for any argument against the observation that the kink community is rife with legitimate abuse, oft times buried beneath double speak and inexperience, it is important to ...

Wed May 11, 2022 3:46 am • 41 Replies • 5265 Views

Youngest cat in the house

Sometimes, you just find yourself in a tough situation. If you did deep, you may be able to find smaller pockets in local towns, but that is obviously hit or miss, especially when you live in an area ...

Thu May 05, 2022 10:35 pm • 6 Replies • 1264 Views

is there hope

This is not the largest or most extensive site, so I cannot speak to the statistical probability, but you only need to find one couple that is interested in what you offer. You may want to look into m ...

Thu May 05, 2022 2:41 am • 5 Replies • 1096 Views

A take on a take..

I think the sense of attraction comes, not from what you do, but from truly being your authentic self. This may sound sappy and cliche, but there is an element of being comfortable that lends deeply t ...

Mon May 02, 2022 5:41 pm • 10 Replies • 1421 Views

Lack of fetish representation

There is an interesting topic of discussion, certain to bring about, in equal measure, deep thoughts and aggressive responses (both warranted and not so much).
The distinction between a misogyny feti ...

Tue Apr 26, 2022 1:46 am • 41 Replies • 5265 Views