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Ethical Non-Monogamy

Presuming, of course, that all answers are fully consensual.

Tue Feb 23, 2021 4:59 am • 53 Replies • 19220 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

And, if you do not try it again and choose to remain monogamous, that is also okay. Maintaining the open mind and considering all options is what is important. The only wrong answer is the willfully u ...

Tue Feb 23, 2021 4:57 am • 53 Replies • 19220 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

Poly is a complicated undertaking that requires a depth of commitment and trust and has a lot of room for things to go wrong.
I am sorry to hear that your experience was so difficult.
Just like wi ...

Tue Feb 23, 2021 4:47 am • 53 Replies • 19220 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

It is unfortunate, but I cannot disagree with you in terms of how some people approach the poly concept from a problematic place. A lot of new people, especially men, automatically assume that interes ...

Tue Feb 23, 2021 4:41 am • 53 Replies • 19220 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

That being said, it is important to me that this thread remain as neutral as possible in the vein of which is the ‘correct’ choice. If poly is not your thing, that is valid. However, poly people are f ...

Tue Feb 23, 2021 12:48 am • 53 Replies • 19220 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

I have seen this a couple of times now, this comment about choosing to be poly, or going poly. It seems like it kind of paints over the reality that whether poly or mono, we are choosing it. The close ...

Tue Feb 23, 2021 12:40 am • 53 Replies • 19220 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Bots

I have seen this kind of thing fairly often.
A new s type will join the site and get bombarded with messages. They might respond to your message, they might not.
After a day or two, they are off t ...

Mon Feb 22, 2021 6:01 am • 3 Replies • 2249 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

I noticed a few different things that have come up since I was here most recently.
In terms of a sub having multiple Doms, this is tricky, and does depend on the style of the dynamic. Obviously, a 2 ...

Sun Feb 21, 2021 2:32 am • 53 Replies • 19220 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

While openness and honesty would be a cornerstone for any form of relationship, it is not always the case. Much less than it should be.
A common misconception regarding ethical non-monogamy is that ...

Fri Feb 19, 2021 9:05 am • 53 Replies • 19220 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

Taramafor

There is a lot going on in your comment.
I like how you described mono and poly as two sides of a single coin instead of working to differentiate the two more than they already are. They ...

Thu Feb 18, 2021 9:18 am • 53 Replies • 19220 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Ethical Non-Monogamy