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Agoodgirl​(sub female)
3 months ago • Fri 21 Jun 2019 06:03:23 AM IDT
Agoodgirl​(sub female) • Fri 21 Jun 2019 06:03:23 AM IDT
What is your favourite fetish?
Being held by the throat, words

What are your favourite qualities in a dominant?
Gentle and firm at the same time, consistent, trustworthy, intelligent, caring, thoughtful, real.

What are your favourite qualities in a submissive?
Our shared indecisiveness and sameness as humans, depth

What is your chief characteristic?
Authenticity

What do you appreciate most in your friends?
Compassion, good listener, trust

What would you consider your main fault as a dominant or submissive?
Thinking too much when I don't need to

What is your favourite way to spend your time?
Hiking (besides submitting)

What quality do you most dislike in a dominant?
Coldness

What quality do you most dislike in a submissive?
Shyness (who me?)

What's your idea of happiness?
Being in nature, and feeling submissive

What's your idea of misery?
Finding out I was wrong to trust.

If not yourself, who would you choose to be?
a cat

Where would you like to live?
Out in the desert away from people

What is your favourite BDSM implement?
Rope

What historical figure do you most identify with?
Jane Addams

Who are your favourite authors (kinky and otherwise)?
Stephen King, psychologists

What is your favourite representation of BDSM in popular culture?
Secretary

How would you like to die?
Peacefully and before my life satisfaction goes downhill

What is your personal maxim?
Attachment is everything.
Darkmistress1213​(dom female)
3 months ago • Fri 21 Jun 2019 08:43:33 AM IDT
Darkmistress1213​(dom female) • Fri 21 Jun 2019 08:43:33 AM IDT
What is your favourite fetish?
Micromanagement and chastity: I love budgeting, making a menu and giving my sub an allowance and seeing if they can keep it.

What are your favourite qualities in a dominant?
Connection, feeling power, control, (responsible) into their sub as being not just a servant, not having to clean (A good dominant will not just enjoy their sub, but make them a better person for it)

What are your favourite qualities in a submissive?
Loyal, good cleaner, respectable, honest, helpful (constantly trying to improve the dominant’s lifestyle and being the best person that they can.)

What is your chief characteristic?
Loyalty, responsibility, and control (they are tied)

What do you appreciate most in your friends?
Loyal, good listener, honesty

What would you consider your main fault as a dominant or submissive?
I need a connection and committed relationship; most sub just want to serve and move on, or at least that is how it sounds.
I’m also not into sex, until I get fix.

What is your favourite way to spend your time?
Writing, cooking or playing with cats (in that order)

What quality do you most dislike in a dominant?
They over use a submissive. (Not seeing the submissive as they are human first, but just faceless servant or toy)

What quality do you most dislike in a submissive?
They only let me see the submissive, not the human. (Note: I do not want a switch, but I need to have similarity with my submissive. . . likes to read, play games, watch movies. . . cook etc)

What's your idea of happiness?
Feeling at home: writing (while my sub works or cleans)

What's your idea of misery?
Realizing that my writing was a waste of time, not writing due to depression, or being cheated on.

If not yourself, who would you choose to be?
A cat

Where would you like to live?
A climate that is 70’s during the day and 50’s at night. (62 degree is prefect breathing weather.)

What is your favourite BDSM implement?
Strap-on, cuffs

What historical figure do you most identify with?
Honest Ab

Who are your favourite authors (kinky and otherwise)?
Stephen King, Anne Rice and Agatha Christie

What is your favourite representation of BDSM in popular culture?
I like teacher vs student or bar scene to act out (I don’t drink in real life)

How would you like to die?
In my sleep after an orgasm

What is your personal maxim?
Keep all communications open: Honesty is everything.
Villanelle​(staff)
3 months ago • Wed 26 Jun 2019 02:11:08 AM IDT
Villanelle​(staff) • Wed 26 Jun 2019 02:11:08 AM IDT
I'm giving this a bump too - if you haven't done it yet give it a try!
hisduchess​(sub female){collared}
3 months ago • Thu 27 Jun 2019 09:25:04 PM IDT

introducing myself

hisduchess​(sub female){collared} • Thu 27 Jun 2019 09:25:04 PM IDT
What is your favourite fetish?

I’m a slutty submissive woman. Water sports. Anal. Face slapping. IMPACT! Breath play. Rope and bondage.


What are your favourite qualities in a dominant?

Trustworthy. Honest. Compassionate. Loving.


What are your favourite qualities in a submissive?

Trustworthy. Honest. Compassionate. Loving.


What is your chief characteristic?

I am a social butterfly.


What do you appreciate most in your friends?

When they give me their time.


What would you consider your main fault as a dominant or submissive?

I expect people to treat me the way they want to be treated.


What is your favourite way to spend your time?

With my children. Reading a good book. Watching useless reality shows. Crocheting. Cooking. Taking pics. Being tied up by my partner and being tortured.


What quality do you most dislike in a dominant?

When their ego is this
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What quality do you most dislike in a submissive?

Those that think you don’t have a voice just because you are a submissive woman. I am a strong independent woman and will be treated with respect and those that have consent are the only ones who can tell me what to do.


What's your idea of happiness?

Living life to the fullest. Enjoying every single moment even if I’m in tears and a total mess. The lessons I have learned have brought me here and I wouldn’t change a thing.


What's your idea of misery?

Mental abuse and not being cherished for the person that you are. Being taken for granted.


If not yourself, who would you choose to be?

I do me rather well so I can’t answer. I do feel that perhaps I was a spy in a former life so I’ll go with that.


Where would you like to live?

Right where I am. With my Dominant in our home with our family.


What is your favourite BDSM implement?

His hands and His words.


What historical figure do you most identify with?

I’ll have to get back to that one. I’m still thinking.


Who are your favourite authors (kinky and otherwise)?

I have several book tastes. Mostly old lit and russian lit. I don’t read any mushy stuff. You will NOT find Jodi Picoult anywhere near my bookshelf. No offense if that’s your jam.

What is your favourite representation of BDSM in popular culture?

Secretary. The Story of O.


How would you like to die?

While dropping acid in the nursing home while doing the centipede. (a joke I heard but fully agree with.)


What is your personal maxim?

Insanity Is Doing the Same Thing Over and Over Again and Expecting Different Results.
AnimaNymphaea​(sub female)
3 months ago • Thu 11 Jul 2019 07:14:05 AM IDT
AnimaNymphaea​(sub female) • Thu 11 Jul 2019 07:14:05 AM IDT
What is your favourite fetish?
- Oaxelagnia, most specifically: Being bitten

What are your favourite qualities in a dominant?
- Patience, Respect, Steadfastness, Perceptiveness, Kindness

What are your favourite qualities in a submissive?
- Respect, Diligence, Humility, Devotion, Vulnerability

What is your chief characteristic?
- Sensitive

What do you appreciate most in your friends?
- Honesty

What would you consider your main fault as a dominant or submissive?
- Being deeply guarded

What is your favourite way to spend your time?
- Learning something interesting, exploring an idea or thought

What quality do you most dislike in a dominant?
- Arrogance

What quality do you most dislike in a submissive?
- being a doormat

What's your idea of happiness?
- Simple peaceful freedom

What's your idea of misery?
- Unending and inescapable drudgery, persistent violation, and the feeling of being utterly Alone despite being constantly surrounded by loved ones

If not yourself, who would you choose to be?
- Myself but more well-adjusted and with superpowers

Where would you like to live?
- Probably Europe, maybe the UK

What is your favourite BDSM implement?
- Kali’s teeth bracelet if we're talking toys
- a wicked or willing mind

What historical figure do you most identify with?
- There are no historical figures I’ve come across that I identify with

Who are your favourite authors (kinky and otherwise)?
- Terry Pratchett, Neil Gaiman, A.Lee Martinez, Jim Butcher

What is your favourite representation of BDSM in popular culture?
- Morticia and Gomez Adams

How would you like to die?
- Prepared and with dignity

What is your personal maxim?
- You have to stop accepting what you’re used to if you want something different
Villanelle​(staff)
3 months ago • Fri 12 Jul 2019 12:23:45 PM IDT
Villanelle​(staff) • Fri 12 Jul 2019 12:23:45 PM IDT
Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to answer these questions so far! I am always fascinated by your answers and your willingness to share icon_smile.gif
sweet november​(sub female){Dark_Domin}
2 months ago • Tue 16 Jul 2019 01:36:29 AM IDT
sweet november​(sub female){Dark_Domin} • Tue 16 Jul 2019 01:36:29 AM IDT
What is your favourite fetish?

Orgasm control
Spankings
Light bondage have yet to experience anything but light

What are your favourite qualities in a dominant?

Honesty
Caring
Strong
Reliable

What are your favourite qualities in a submissive?

What is your chief characteristic?

Wear my heart on my sleeve
Love to laugh
(Smiling is my favorite)

What do you appreciate most in your friends?

Trust
Humor
Listening ear

What would you consider your main fault as a dominant or submissive?

Too sensitive

What is your favourite way to spend your time?

Outside at pool
Reading
Football games
Music

What quality do you most dislike in a dominant?

Arrogance
Lies

What quality do you most dislike in a submissive?

What's your idea of happiness?

Enjoying the world around me
Watching my kids be successful and happy
Helping others
My team winning

What's your idea of misery?

Being ignored/ abandoned

If not yourself, who would you choose to be?

I like myself pretty much but I guess....
Anyone that can paint/ an artist no particular one

Where would you like to live?

Right where I live now
But love to travel

What is your favourite BDSM implement?

The mind

What historical figure do you most identify with?

Joan of Arc

Who are your favourite authors (kinky and otherwise)?

Laurell K Hamilton, James Rollins, Ken Follett, Kim Harrison Paulo Coelho

What is your favourite representation of BDSM in popular culture?

Music

How would you like to die?

In a helicopter crash in the side of a mountain

What is your personal maxim?

You only live once

"The moment you doubt whether you can fly, you cease forever to be able to do it." Peter Pan
AKittenforSir​(sub female){JohnBond}
2 months ago • Tue 16 Jul 2019 03:15:51 AM IDT
AKittenforSir​(sub female){JohnBond} • Tue 16 Jul 2019 03:15:51 AM IDT
What is your favourite fetish?

Just one?! I suppose if I HAD to choose, impact play.

What are your favourite qualities in a dominant?

Consistency, reliability, self awareness

What are your favourite qualities in a submissive?

Honesty, selflessness

What is your chief characteristic?

Conscientious

What do you appreciate most in your friends?

Open mindedness

What would you consider your main fault as a dominant or submissive?

Constant need for affirmation

What is your favourite way to spend your time?

Outdoorsy things with Sir

What quality do you most dislike in a dominant?

Indecisiveness

What quality do you most dislike in a submissive?

Disrespectfulness

What's your idea of happiness?

Laying in a hammock with Sir on a sunny breezy day with the sound of the ocean in the background while Sir reads to me in his deep calming voice

What's your idea of misery?

Being alone

If not yourself, who would you choose to be?

Princess Belle

Where would you like to live?

Greece

What is your favourite BDSM implement?

Sir’s leather belt, with rope as a close second

What historical figure do you most identify with?

I can’t think of any that I relate to all that much.

Who are your favourite authors (kinky and otherwise)?

Changes regularly but right now Jennifer Armentrout

What is your favourite representation of BDSM in popular culture?

I agree with a previous poster that Gonez and Morticia are #goals haha

How would you like to die?

In a heroic blaze of glory

What is your personal maxim?

Fuck it
ShieMarie
2 months ago • Tue 16 Jul 2019 09:02:02 AM IDT
ShieMarie • Tue 16 Jul 2019 09:02:02 AM IDT
What is your favourite fetish?
**** Ass play and chastity equally

What are your favourite qualities in a dominant?
**** Compassion mainly

What are your favourite qualities in a submissive?
**** Faith and confidence mainly

What is your chief characteristic?
**** Always evolving / room for growth / never settling for self-actualization

What do you appreciate most in your friends?
**** Time and what time reveals

What would you consider your main fault as a dominant or submissive?
**** Impatience

What is your favourite way to spend your time?
**** Laughing or dancing

What quality do you most dislike in a dominant?
**** Mysteriousness

What quality do you most dislike in a submissive?
**** Inconsistency

What's your idea of happiness?
**** Listening to and processing emotional responses to music

What's your idea of misery?
**** My fear of the unknown

If not yourself, who would you choose to be?
**** God / The Universe or Minnie Mouse

Where would you like to live?
**** In a world full of peace and love

What is your favourite BDSM implement?
**** Chastity cage 🤤 and clamps

What historical figure do you most identify with?
**** Not applicable

Who are your favourite authors (kinky and otherwise)?
**** The mindfuck that was Gertrude Stein, as well as Robert Greene, Geoffrey Chaucer and myself

What is your favourite representation of BDSM in popular culture?
**** IDK... music?

How would you like to die?
**** In a really fucked up car accident or any given way from the Final Destination movies

What is your personal maxim?
**** It's something like Mr. Orange bleeding out in the back of the car of Reservoir Dogs saying, "I'm gonna be ok" when shit is extremely fucked up.

**** I love this. I'm posting to my profile. 😊
Villanelle​(staff)
2 months ago • Fri 19 Jul 2019 08:54:45 PM IDT
Villanelle​(staff) • Fri 19 Jul 2019 08:54:45 PM IDT
Thank you for all of these responses! If you haven't tried our Kink Questionnaire yet please give it atry!