4 months ago • Mon 12 Aug 2019 07:42:19 PM IDT
SecretSubSlut • Mon 12 Aug 2019 07:42:19 PM IDT
My HusDom and I are just starting to explore this together, and so far this has been amazing. I have known throughout our relationship that he was naturally an Alpha Dominant and I have always wanted to truly submit to him. That being said, I have done a lot of reading on the subject so I could present it to him intelligently to help him understand initially because I am very much an Alpha female to everyone else. My question is.... As a new Dom or as a submissive with an inexperienced Dom, have you ever had the Dom just adapt naturally to the role without 'training'? My Sir is able to read me so well and know what I need and when without having done a great deal of research in the area. He is enjoying pushing both of our boundaries carefully, he provides aftercare consistently and completely, and he is able to transition in and out of the role smoothly just as I am able to do. It seems surreal that by my awareness and confession of needing to submit to him, he has embraced that part of him that he was suppressing (for many reasons, complicated life stressors) and it seems that he knows exactly what I need and when.
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