Does anyone think that dirty talk has gotten lazy?

Here is the episode, for anyone else who may want to listen:

https://lovingbdsm.kaylalords.com/2020/05/05/podcast-minisode-5-erotic-humiliation/amp/

For me, it's not 'dirty talk' if it's not real. my idea of dirty talk is the deep thoughts and desires, especially the taboo ones, that make it to the surface. Anything contrived or obvious effort to produce dirty talk that isn't what the person is feeling, just doesn't do it for me.

Having said that, i do love some of the suggestions here. One of the most powerful experiences i have ever had with a Dom was when He was coaching me while i was sucking Him. He was completely affectionate the entire time. His cock was very large and girthy and He wanted it in my throat and it was a challenge doing it as He wished. His banter was constant, but HIs tone was like He was coaching or encouraging a kid, simple stuff, like telling me how proud He was of me while i was gagging, tearing and my nose running. He coach "that's it, a little more, just around the corner..." and when i would do it, He'd practically gush: "Good boy!!!, aren't you proud of yourself?" i do not think of myself as a "boy," but He had me feeling like one, and the overall effect was i felt very embarrassed, aroused and proud all at the same time. In essence, the "dirty talk" was Him finding something buried in me that i didn't know was there, something that social conditioning would deem embarrassing, and exposed it.

It mainly depends on what is said AND done. How it is said factors in, but without the what there is no how.

It's ok useless. You deserve this buttplug up your ass. After all you're only a horny slut that can't help but give in to your lustful desires.

Someone might say as they slowly slide the buttplug up along the thigh then ass as they slowly slide it in.

Just to give a very rough and basic idea.

He doesn’t know what he’s missing there.

So many people think it’s just sex. Emotional arousal and the connection between mind and body is very important.

Apparently Layla Martin was also feeling a bit disappointed with her partner’s verbal skills. So she had him trained by a Dominatrix. https://laylamartin.com/2020/andrew-learns-dirty-talk-from-a-dominatrix/

My god i have not related to something so hard!!!! When i watch porn i have to have it on silent because of the lack of good dirty talk the male porn stars use. It is so cringeworthy and does not give off that dominant demeanor I am looking for. I think I've realized that i dont really like dirty talk phrased as questions. I prefer when im told what to do, what they're going to do, and how it will make me react even before its done. This gives a sense of suspense.

There is no "lazy" only the lack of the filthiness we all love and miss. It's even difficult to find a decent porn clip that will fit the bill...... That's why I make the best dam homebrewed, gutter-mouthed , slap you mamavideo clips that make the porn industry giants look like babbling idiots....... (No offense).