How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

RosePhoenix​(sub female) • Jun 22, 2020

RosePhoenix... wanted something symbolic and meaningful.
Rose itself is a pun.
Yes, as you guessed it : both the flower and the past action of rise.
Phoenix ...a symbol many in my life journey have described me as.

And so...combined the two, and walla!

Out of the darkness, rose the phoenix and the phoenix who loved his one and only rose.

Blissful Enigma • Jun 25, 2020

For myself I chose my screen name after recognizing I wanted a name that had an aspects to my personality within it therefore hopefully would remain less assumptions upon meeting.

Bliss for myself had two meanings; one being I am generally content with myself and those around me. I've had some negative experiences where partners would attempt to put me down for seeing the best in the world. Even with all the negativity; I prefer to look at the best things in a realistic view. I also used the word bliss as I notice when I feel that I am able to completely open to a dominant; the mental and emotional elements bought together can create a very blissful environment around us when going through the subspace.

My choosing of using the word enigma came initially from my MBTI Personality type; as often the type I am which is an INFJ is often harder to understand due to the depth in the type. However as I thought of using that specific word; I also thought due to my appreciation of the mental and emotional aspects I crave; it takes time to get to know a person and who they are. Initially a person may not fully understand the depth until they actually take the time to get to know for a person.

Until I started describing the meaning of my screen name I did not recognize that both words I chose had double meanings for me.

Mr E​(dom male) • Jun 25, 2020

A temporary lack of imagination.

NoClvrNickname​(sub female) • Aug 6, 2020

I was setting up a profile on another kink-related site and my mind went completely blank. There was a limit of number of characters so I couldn’t spell it out completely. Figured I’d just use the same screen name for both that site & this one. 🤷‍♀️

Feileks​(switch female) • Aug 6, 2020

I'm mischievous and short. I love taking up time, and I am a brat.

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) • Aug 6, 2020

It’s just a random name and changes with the moon

Orgazmo​(dom male){serenity m} • Aug 6, 2020

My name comes from an independant film.

A low budget comedy from the guys who make South Park & The Book of Mormon.

It's about a mormon missionary in Hollywood who accidentally becomes a porn star/superhero

Lilandian​(sub male) • Aug 7, 2020

I've gone by quite a lot of screen names until I settled on this one. I used to base it off interests or curiosities but nowadays I just pick random words that appeal to me and add extensions to the end of it. With "Lil" at the beginning because I am generally short haha, then I added the "an" part as a way of joining it with the next letters and also because it sounds similar to Lilian, Then I added an extension, "Lil-an-dian"

But for the most part....completely random.

ArtfulDodger​(sub female){collared} • Aug 7, 2020

I've always been a Dickens fan, and then ArtfulDodger popped up as a character in another one of my favorite books - Polarity, by Virginia Ford. I plagiarized the name shamelessly! BTW, Polarity is the best erotic book I've ever read - I've heard it referred to as "the thinking woman's 50 Shades".

MissMelisandre​(dom female) • Aug 7, 2020

When it was running on TV, more than one person told me that I remind them of the character of Melisandre or the Red Woman in Game of Thrones. I checked it out for myself and found that I identify with her quite a bit. Like her, I am a practitioner of magick and witchcraft and I enjoy the twisted way Melisandre manipulates men for her own purposes. Plus I kind of look like her though I won't claim to be as beautiful as Carice Van Houten.