Water sports yes or no?

Re: Water sports yes or no?

CotrolYourHole • Nov 5, 2022

It’s very fun & sexy in my experience, but it’s not something that I do all the time. My wife wasn’t enthusiastic about the idea at first, but then she agreed to try it in the shower. It didn’t gross her out at all, she did think it tickled thoughmaybe that’s just because I did it on her butt? Lol…next time I plan on trying it on her front side…also the thought of peeing directly on/into her asshole sounds hot tootbh I’d do it all the time if she was super into it…she isn’t super into humiliation/degradation so most of our kinky fun consists of bondage & her just being a good little submissive girl in general. If our unicorn sub (once we find her) is into more degrading stuff though, I won’t hesitate to piss all over her daily including in her mouthit’ll be interesting to see what more Cage members think of it too!

Authenticly honest • Nov 5, 2022

I agree with all those comments but being who I am I feel and enjoy that peeing on my sub is a validation of her pleasing my pervasions but as I did before if it is for punishment then I will urinate over her head and have her go to sleep without a shower.
Every act of kinks for me are exotic acts for many splendor things.

Byrdie​(switch female){rl only} • Nov 9, 2022

I enjoy topping for it: it gives me the giggles.

One submissive who liked raunch play encouraged me to try it. Another was initially alarmed by our first time, and almost immediately afterwards told me that they loved it when I "made" them do something that they "don't want to do."

Hilarymeg • Nov 29, 2022

For the longest time, Water Sports/ golden showers were a hard limit for me. But then one day, I changed my mind and tried it and didn't flinch. Found out that I loved it. Both the degrading humiliating part and the love of Master's piss.

shutmkr • Dec 2, 2022

I totally agree to try it and see if it something you like. Have the conversation of what it will look like for you and what your partner wants it to look like.
My Master and I have done it, after lots of talking. I enjoyed it more than I thought I would. He also completely enjoyed it.
The idea of marking his territory as his is exciting! I want nothing more to be completely his and to please him.

CharBunny​(sub female) • Dec 3, 2022

Watersports was on my absolute no list.

Then it was on my possibly but I really don't want to list.

Then it was on my that's quite scary please keep it over there list,.

Then it was on my it's pleases you? Ok, I can try list.

Now it's on my "Not my favorite thing to do but I understand the arousal and I'm willing to explore it under the right circumstances, with the right Dominant" list after a few positive experiences.

Limits change as we grow, as we ask ourselves why is it a limit? Is it revulsion? Or fear? Or societal judgment? Or our own fear that we might actually be aroused by it but we've always been told it's wrong.

tallslenderguy​(other male) • Dec 3, 2022

i think you ask great questions. To me, one of the best gifts of being 'different' is how our differences can teach us to observe and question 'the norm.' i don't think we really can 'know' the truth of where our desires and needs come from, though those who control culture will often not hesitate to assert their perceptions as "truth."

i think one of the funnier tricks of nature is that all our sex organs have a dual function of 'waste' removal from the body. Even the vagina has a week long sort of 'movement' when the uterus sloughs and becomes bloody 'waste'. And some people still have sex during that time.

When we look honestly, it's hard to discern between what comes naturally and what comes 'naturally.' Being open to what arouses and connects us can broaden our horizons, eh?

Beautiful eyes​(sub female) • Dec 3, 2022

I have to say, when I posed this question, my own preconceptions had me thinking one way.

However hearing the positive experiences people have had, it really has given me given me a different prospective.

tallslenderguy​(other male) • Dec 3, 2022

It's been a wild journey for me, and i'm sure many can relate with this and other 'kinks.'

For me, it started out with a Man pissing in me anally after breeding me. i was startled at first, but He was a trusted Top and He knew me well enough to take the risk, and He had me almost instantly. i am very anal lol, and any hint of a Man being able to 'impregnate" me is a 'collaring' place for me.

Drinking from His cock is a harder one (so to speak) for me to 'learn.' Psychologically, it can connect to several things in me if the Top knows me and handles those things in me. i still do not like the taste, it's overwhelming to me and that creates fear and anticipation for me... fear that i'm going to fail to receive it, Him, His release and interrupt His pleasure. i was kind of proud of myself the first time because the quantity and flow was something i also feared, but was able to keep up just fine. For me, it's mostly about the friendly/affectionate degradation/humiliation, then His being proud and pleased when i succeed at that level.
Ha, our kinks are complex, eh? But they can be very deep connecting places... none of this is solo for me, but connected and dependent on what the Man i am with is experiencing that is connecting and bonding us.

I'mME • Dec 8, 2022

Beautiful Eyes,

What has changed in your perceptions?