Little Vixie wrote:
I feel like it's the same thing when I get men who ask me to send them pics of certain things "just so they can see" like pics of my feet etc. Or the ones that push questions and it turns evident that they are getting off on it. I had one person ask questions about my sa and after I finished I got "wow, that didn't turn me on Luke it did with my ex. That was depressing".
I think it's all just an easy way for these men to get off. And it's annoying.
With these type of men I tell them I don't do free fetish work (not promoting this). They get really pissy when you do this.
Don't let anyone pressure you into doing this "to prove yourself"
Little Vixie,
*I had one person ask questions about my sa and after I finished I got "wow, that didn't turn me on Luke it did with my ex. That was depressing".*
My dear, if you want to answer questions about something private in your life, okay. If one little piece of you feels weird when a mofo stranger is asking you something, THAT IS YOUR INNER VOICE. Listen to it at the moment. Later, you can examine why you felt that weirdness. IT may be something silly, or you may come to the conclusion that 'whatever' made you feel the weirdness, is none none their gd business.
I know exactly what you are talking about. The conversation (questions, randomness) from them is nothing more than to gather fodder for them to stroke their cocks at your expense.
Now, I'm not opposed to activities like this when I have connected w someone. Not a rando on a kink platform. Our conversations can take a turn as it is, but a Dom worth their salt is not bringing that shit into early conversations.
After having this happen a few times, WE MOFO KNOW and it just reflects like shit on them.
But your words I copied and pasted, is the saddest thing I have read in a long time. It brought tears to my eyes.
I would like to tap dance on that mofos dick. Then he could relive his own 'lived' experience.
(One of the stupidest buzz words ever; lived)
I hope you reread what I wrote, there is a lot behind the words.
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