Forced-bi

LatexHer​(dom male) • Oct 4, 2024

Since I am very secure in my sexuality as a Dom, I would not know how to answer your inquiry. Now when it comes to a straight female, being "Forced" by a Dom male to indulge in sex with another woman, could be considered a humiliation, or even degraded by the straight lady.

I am a firm believer that knowing the woman, and her hard limits is paramount before engaging in this practice. Now, if she told you that she had fantasies about oral play with another female, her limit may be fun to explore during a two-girl bondage session. Their Safe word or signals must be strictly adhered to - or you as their Dom may forever lose these ladies as play partners.

I'mME • Oct 4, 2024

When the word 'forced' is used in discussions of this nature, there are ppl who may not understand what that actually means, new or newer ppl, hell there may be ppl who have been around for awhile and not understand this type of play. But I would venture that although they may have been around awhile, this is not the only concept that they do not understand.

A disclaimer, explaining.

However, ppl will do what they want..

Steellover​(sub male) • Oct 10, 2024

I think a better term is "Coerced Bi."

Because that at least implies consent on the part of the sub, who is being ordered to fluff/service a person of their same gender, even if it is against their normal sexual orientation.

I've gotten used to the term "Forced" because it does make it clear that this is not, normally, the submissive's natural orientation, and it gives them an "out" to say they were "forced." Even though it was not, strictly speaking, "forced," which would imply non-consent.

Again, subs who partake in this activity do so to satisfy the whims of their dominant, and to experience the humiliation factor, not necessarily because they secretly crave same-sex action. It is an act of submission.

Gentle Giant UK​(sub male) • Nov 11, 2024

As a sub cuck, i think coerced is a much better term to use. In reality, if i really didn't want to do something, i wouldn't do it.
I am always looking to be pushed further, and my wife and her lovers are always looking to push me further, so there is always a degree of force/coercion in place to achieve that.
The surprise and sometimes shock of what that involves is what makes it even more erotic.
Things that shock you initially, soon become the norm, and being avaialble for guys, is definitely one of those scenario's in my case.

Halakur • Nov 12, 2024

Hmm

interesting concept..and all the reasons i read here

For myself.. as submissive.. well as a human being... (not just a door-mat or mud-rag) -about this aspect

if i was forced into this it would kick in my survival instinct..and there's reason for this..
when i was maybe 7-8 years old.. something happened to me. I was man-handled, assaulted by gay/pedofil person.. nothing penetrative thank god.. but he forcefully touched my genitals, didn't let me go.. so. since that i have had very, very high wall around myself regarding gay people, other males when there is anything sexually orientated happening/going on.
So, in my my case... even i am submissive to right female and will do it with smile on my face..this forced-bi would end up really bad for all of us.. i know myself regarding this "aspect"


yes, i encourage to talk about it first..

Steellover​(sub male) • Nov 13, 2024

Well, I appreciate your brutal honestly, and so will any potential domme who truly cares for you.

shortylotus​(dom female){johnnyxsix} • Dec 10, 2024

Hmmmm...control...humiliation....it's better than watching a rerun of ncis...you do have a right to say no to any activity that makes you uncomfortable...they are only allowed to do what you will let the....if they don't RESPECT that or you feel some sort of retaliation...RUN

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 11, 2024

if you you were a toilet boy you would have to learn first and sit under your domme under a chair and drink and eat til you earned up to the this. But if you talk your domme first of the scene.

Unless you are curious only with people who are the same, nothing is forced to go by flow. bi-curious that you found someone you trust and have built a mutual trust and feeling and agree on this scene to be ravaged with safe words and your likes and dislikes with safety of safe sane and consent.And use safe sex both be tested before anything. Would be best to watch others first in a scene, find people that have done it then you learn the ropes from them. Just like anyone being new to the lifestyle you can see things but will freak out once you are the hot seat so think before you leap. Learn from people that take the time take it slow. But until you get into the ring not the same why you need to work up to things, do your research, test things, grow a trust of friendship, people that are not forcing but willing to get to know you show you without games. Even masosadism know one should ever just say they like pain or say pain slut they could get in the wrong hands you could be hurt find yourself in the Hospital always good to play it safe with people that take it slow it might be turn on but you have to understand it takes time weeks months years to any hard core stuff as I said people sweet talk you but real person will show effect blueprints. Anyone trying to force is just after lust then run you need after care and love and time. Nothing ever happens over night. Why one has to grow, explore and evolve. Desperation is a bit difficult and not growth its bit childish not safe. If you wanna find the right kind of people don't chase dopamine, go for real dopamine because love takes time and getting to know people. If you get in the wrong hands it will be hard to leave. You need to have friends being locked up, you need air and a lifetime and place for it all. I had a friend who met a guy who was chained in the basement. She said she was in pain but she was crying. She talks the guy out to set her free. Why anything in BDSM never be forced, its bond and trust those have worked it out together both hold the key one can not do it alone. Might be Master but sub takes two not just one sub has to speak up also when time to stop. Play it cool, play it safe. Don't do anything til you learn and research around with people who are safe with you willing to meet in public and grow a friendship never just go to anyone house right away always take a friends and let people know were you are be on gps. Never say your in to pain if you never tried someone could chain you up your black and blue they did give you after care or does even give you love this not love and bdsm should never be out of hate. Just going to say pain can only be done out of passion agreed on over time worked up to or can lead to mental health and injury not all parts of the body can be hit also can cause death why you have to be careful learn things. You could get way with tho on Second life cause well you learn the ropes if you cant find in real til you get it first still play it safe.