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TopekaDom(dom male)
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1 week ago •
Dec 27, 2024
Yeah, no.
I find 50s style household way too vanilla. For me, it is simply a way for someone too scared to really get into the lifestyle. They want to be vanilla kinky without making much of an effort. |
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trixietrixster(sub female)
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1 week ago •
Dec 27, 2024
With the rite connection - absolutely ... anything is possible ...
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intenseoldman(dom male)
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1 week ago •
Dec 27, 2024
TopekaDom wrote: Yeah, no.
I find 50s style household way too vanilla. For me, it is simply a way for someone too scared to really get into the lifestyle. They want to be vanilla kinky without making much of an effort. At least you're not judgemental about it. Kinda interesting, though, in that the OP describes that she is looking for a "traditional" 50's style within an M/s dynamic. It sounds to me like she desires a healthy dose of sadomasochism in her dynamic. The "traditional" part is the romance and flavor she desires along with the kink. Sounds like a lot of effort to me, and I don't see the fear you see, either. I'm curious. What does her "really getting into the lifestyle" look like to you? And what effort is not being made? |
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mysterysoul(masochist female)
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1 week ago •
Dec 27, 2024
Dynamic you gotta have balance people do live more then one lifestyle. Not everyone had to live the same how they want to be with their partner. I was reading erotica story’s in 1997 about d/s later got in to more. 1950s was considered With erotica. Betty page for one did many fetish modeling with erotica D/s. Nothing New Not New. Was just sharing this other side lifestyle no harm. I didn’t wake up say I was in to this It came naturally old school D/s I have tried some devices myself had little training over the years. I like lace and leather and sheer vintage stuff is not boring if you want long term with someone do a alot more then that. Electro bed , breast Device pitches your boobs, suction that has things at the end pitch nipples Things the nipples , fiber glass paddle , taboo sadistic.
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MisterAshmodai(dom male)
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1 week ago •
Dec 27, 2024
If you can find a partner with the same complimentary goals as you, you can build any sort of dynamic you want.
A "traditional" relationship is not something I personally would be interested in, as I have no interest in the traditional lifestyle. I will never have children, I will never marry any one of my partners, I enjoy cooking, and I have yet to meet anyone I share an attraction with who is more meticulous about cleanliness than I am. And, as shitty as it is to comment on the unspoken element, I seem to be appealing enough as a partner that I don't have to pay for my relationships, even in the traditional, unclarified manner. I will continue to do so until the white collar wage gap is verifiably extinct, but never out of necessity. There would simply be no way for a "traditional" partner to accrue enough equitable value for this kind of dynamic to work for me. |
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Cello Trance{for You}
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1 week ago •
Dec 27, 2024
Please don’t be afraid of what you want. There is nothing Usual about what you’re wanting , it actually sounds very Romantic to me. You just need to find the right partner that desires similar things. And that’s like all of us on this website. We are all looking for connections within our kinky likes and dislikes. Again, I think what you are desiring sounds beautiful. And I hope you find what you’re looking for.
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TopekaDom(dom male)
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1 week ago •
Dec 27, 2024
I'm not quite sure what you think I am bitter about. Someone asked a question and I answered it.
I mean, lets face it: Trad wives are just an illusion for lifestyle choices, sometimes non consenting ones. It is a play act to either engage in D/s roles without admitting it or It is window dressing to show the vanillas that you are not kinky. As Yoda said "Do or Do not. There is no try" |
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lambsone
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1 week ago •
Dec 27, 2024
I think in today's world, dressing as a Trad wife would actually be considered kinky. They would certainly stand out in public.
Trad lifestyles, like all lifestyles, take a lot of work to maintain and be successful at it. I disagree with Trad lifestyles being just window dressing for those afraid to delve deeply into kink, Ms or Ds, etc. What lifestyle is 100% kink? People have jobs, they have to grocery shop, they raise kids, they have to interact in a vanilla world, yadda, yadda. Who says a Trad wife can't wear a butt plug or dildo under their "window dressing"? Or a necklace for a collar. Who says the bedroom has to be vanilla? What goes on behind closed doors can vary greatly and still fulfill kink activities. A Trad wife can call her husband Sir anywhere that they are at without raising too many eyebrows. It's an accepted sign of respect most places. They can still write up a contract between themselves. Trad lifestyles ARE Ds related. No doubt about that. And there is a power exchange present. |
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