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BottomKatie
6 years ago • Oct 19, 2018

Alternative Names?

BottomKatie • Oct 19, 2018
I’ve recently entered into a Master/slave dynamic. We have both decided that although the dynamic fits us, the titles themselves don’t. If you don’t call your partner(s) by their titles, what do you call them?
MissBonnie​(dom female){oz}Verified Account
6 years ago • Oct 20, 2018
MissBonnie​(dom female){oz}Verified Account • Oct 20, 2018
I call my primary sub .. My Darlin' the "my" is enough for him to feel owned and bland enough that non kinkers never bat an eye at it.
MasterBear​(other butch)
6 years ago • Oct 22, 2018
MasterBear​(other butch) • Oct 22, 2018
I call my slave "my love" or "beloved"
she calls me "punkin "


We do that because of consent issues in vanilla space. It maintain dynamics no matter where we are.
djinni​(dom female){smplylaura}Verified Account
6 years ago • Oct 23, 2018
djinni​(dom female){smplylaura}Verified Account • Oct 23, 2018
MissBonnie wrote:
I call my primary sub .. My Darlin' the "my" is enough for him to feel owned and bland enough that non kinkers never bat an eye at it.


“my” never fails to turn me inside out.
CrimsonPaw
6 years ago • Nov 6, 2018
CrimsonPaw • Nov 6, 2018
Pretty much anything that begins with 'my' and I melt.
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BottomKatie
6 years ago • Nov 6, 2018
BottomKatie • Nov 6, 2018
He’s decided that I should call him My Lord and he calls me Wench, along with the other names he calls me.
BDSM DOM​(dom male)
6 years ago • Nov 6, 2018
BDSM DOM​(dom male) • Nov 6, 2018
Titles dont mean much to me personally. As long as you and your girl / guy are happy that what matters. So don't let titles ruin the experience for you both. Just talk things out to see what works for you both. In the end, just be true to who you are and to each other.