chemical play

chemical play

intenseoldman​(dom male) • Jun 26, 2025

Anybody experienced with chemical play as a form of punishment, I'd appreciate some advice. It's something I've zero experience with. I've read that it is, and it isn't safe to put a tiny dab of toothpaste, Vics, or ginger on labia, clits, and and nipples. I understand you can test it on the inside of your forearm first to make sure you're not allergic. Share your persinal experiences and advice wirh me if you would. Thanks!

Steellover​(sub male) • Jun 26, 2025

My persinal (sic) advice is, I wouldn't recommend it, as it could cause permanent or lasting harm. I would stick to the tried and true methods of corporal punishment, i.e. paddles, floggers, spanking, etc.
Although, hot wax play (Not near sensitive areas though) can be used safely as I have experienced that one.

intenseoldman​(dom male) • Jun 27, 2025

Thanks. (Thanks for pointing out my typo, too.)There's a couple of schools of thought on it. I just want to hear some personal, not"persinal" experiences.
Are there any chemical players?

Zombie Clown​(dom male) • Jun 27, 2025

The after care must be there... depending on what you're wanting to play with.. make sure the "Chemical Neutralizer" is within arm's reach.
My personal opinion... don't, the after care is a bit much...

bdsamworld​(sub female) • Jul 5, 2025

I have experience outside of kink and it's not fun when something goes wrong. Granted there are people who have never had an issue with figging (yes some consider that chemical play) or using Vicks/minty/spicy things. And with everything there is a risk, I get all of that. But when shit hits the fan and you have a partner who is in pain that can't be managed because you have to ride it out, make sure you're really ready for that. Or understand completely what neutralizes the thing you're playing with.

Ok with all the warnings now out of the way, please learn all the ways to neutralize what you're playing with. AND whether to blot or rub. For example, capsaicin based chemical play you want fat soluble neutralizers like vegetable oil blotted on cotton balls to then be blotted on the effected area.

Also, try things in areas like wrist, thigh, ankle, etc before actually using on someone's privates. Never know when you might have a reaction. 🙃 I have a coconut allergy and many people like to use it as a lube, but didn't know until much later in life I'm allergic.

So, while it seems like fun, try small stuff first like maybe arousal gel and work up to other things. And using those things in different areas. Good luck!

intenseoldman​(dom male) • Jul 5, 2025

Yeah, I researched all of that. Check for allergies first. Have neutralizing agents on hand and know how to use them. TBH in the end I am glad for having into it, and appreciate the input/advice, but nah...

ewieya​(kinky female)​{Myself} • Jul 7, 2025

I've done ginger on the outside of my asshole (honestly don't remember the effects, but this was in 2013).
On my pussy and in it - fucking hot. It made me really wet. The sensation felt good to me.
Tabasco and the like (not sure if this counts) - I've played with spice a little. It can be too much to take.
Some people think regular toothpaste will have an impact. In my experience, it does not.
Soap in the mouth - if you're considering this, like all things, do your research. There are types that can cause numbness and even a burn in the mouth.

This was all done in sadistic play situations, not for punishment.

intenseoldman​(dom male) • Jul 7, 2025

Now that's what I was looking for, personal experience. I appreciate you sharing. Yes it was something she wanted as "punishment" but punishment is her pleasure too, so.. In the end, I have moved on from her. It's good to have researched it and to know if I ever encounter a sub who's into it again. Thanks!

IowaDom​(dom male) • Jul 7, 2025

Poeple will do as they will, but speaking ONLY for myself, I'd saddle the horse and head for the hills before getting involved with ANY chemical play on privates - too much to and can go wrong, no outcome certain, high risk for damage both mentally and physically ... NONE of these possibilities ring the welcome bell for moi ...

Sasa​(dom female) • Jul 7, 2025

There are many ways for punishment... in times like this we shouldn't need to bring someone to an ER. Chemicals on very thin and sensitive skin areas is nothing that goes away after minutes or even hours and can be extremely painful. I wouldn't recommend this. I believe that anyone who uses chemistry should also have some knowledge of chemistry, don't you think so? If you don't know what could happen, you should leave it alone.