| zartedom(switch female) |
2 months ago •
Oct 28, 2025
Correction/Punishment ideas for sub not showing enough appreciation for my selfies.
Hi,
I have a somewhat loose dom/sub connection via text. I recently sent him a beautiful selfie of me and all he responded was "QT!!" -- I suspect he might be a bit of a brat teasing me with his aloofness asking to be punished. I am not sure (still new to this) how I could punish him for this display of ingratitude. Any suggestions appreciated!!! |
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| Miss Anima(dom female) |
2 months ago •
Oct 28, 2025
Not unless he knew he was supposed to be grateful.
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| zartedom(switch female) |
2 months ago •
Oct 28, 2025
Thank you Miss Anima for this clarification. He did indeed not know! So I will establish this first for now.
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House Talion(dom male)
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2 months ago •
Oct 29, 2025
When its just an online dynamic you cant expect much more than a basic response. As if a few emotes would make it better.
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magicHands(dom male)
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2 months ago •
Nov 4, 2025
I would have to agree, that you as the dominate are the one required to set clear expectations first and it sounds like that is in question. So first clarify for you self is the fault theirs or yours. If it is your then be VERY clear in your communication that they have failed to please you and what you expect of them.
As far as punishment goes there is nothing special. It is what ever your dynamics normal punishment is. Walk up to them looking them in the eyes as you put your hand on their throat and tighten your grip telling them they will you better or you will turn your self over to another who can meet your expectations. If they squirm or make excuses slap them. And reafirm your expectations. While you started off with a negative feeling this can be turned into something enjoyable in exploring how you will enjoy punishing them. |
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Heart of Persephone(sub female){owned}
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2 months ago •
Nov 5, 2025
Re: Correction/Punishment ideas for sub not showing enough appreciation for my selfies.
Did you set rules, guidelines, expectations? is this just a casual thing, as you say its a loose connection? how is that being a brat? ingratitude, really? the photo was acknowledged. I sorry I know this will come across wrong but, that almost sounded like to were looking for a way to punish him and call them somewhat a brat. You are still new to this per your admission, don't have a heavy hand until you know what you are trying to build.
zartedom wrote: Hi,
I have a somewhat loose dom/sub connection via text. I recently sent him a beautiful selfie of me and all he responded was "QT!!" -- I suspect he might be a bit of a brat teasing me with his aloofness asking to be punished. I am not sure (still new to this) how I could punish him for this display of ingratitude. Any suggestions appreciated!!! |
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