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SubStanChill​(sub male)
16 hours ago • Sep 15, 2026
SubStanChill​(sub male) • Sep 15, 2026
House Talion wrote:
@Knightsundere​(sub male)
Hadn't thought anyone would consider a truthful response that isnt filled with malice.

I must admit most of what I write may seem unclear, hut that is simply based on having large fingers kn a small cell keyboard.

The initial question is assuredly based on the feeling as pertained by the individual transnperson as compared to how the general public has been reacting to them while everyone's gender has always been based on their genitals


Gender has not always been based on genitals, though. It’s been based on what the general public perceives your genitals to be.

Yes, most people do align there gender with their sex, but I’m willing to bet that 99.9% of people you interact with have determined that your gender is a man without ever even think about your genitals.

So, even if you were correct, practically speaking, it’s impossible to enforce whether someone can identify as as transperson based on genitals, because you will rarely see them to confirm.
SubStanChill​(sub male)
16 hours ago • Sep 15, 2026
SubStanChill​(sub male) • Sep 15, 2026
Knightsundere wrote:
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Everyone's sex has always been based on their genitals*. Until you separate gender and sex you're going to get blasted online and in-person for discussing this in this way.


He’s 100% correct!

If you don’t separate deck from gender, you’ll keep getting wrapped around the axel and never be able to make sense of it.

Once you consider them as to completely different characteristics, it’ll start making sense.
House Talion​(dom male)
1 hour ago • Sep 16, 2026
House Talion​(dom male) • Sep 16, 2026
[quote="Knightsundere"]
House Talion wrote:

Everyone's sex has always been based on their genitals*. Until you separate gender and sex you're going to get blasted online and in-person for discussing this in this way.


Obviously not all dominant straight men are that daft, but even withbsound reasoning ya get blasted by the ignorant that are so easily offended that they have the need to speak up on others behalf as if the ppl in question are unable to speak for themselves. Not saying as much of you as youve prior said youre the closest to respond
Knightsundere​(sub male)
22 minutes ago • Sep 16, 2026
Knightsundere​(sub male) • Sep 16, 2026
[quote="House Talion"]
Knightsundere wrote:
House Talion wrote:

Everyone's sex has always been based on their genitals*. Until you separate gender and sex you're going to get blasted online and in-person for discussing this in this way.


Obviously not all dominant straight men are that daft, but even withbsound reasoning ya get blasted by the ignorant that are so easily offended that they have the need to speak up on others behalf as if the ppl in question are unable to speak for themselves. Not saying as much of you as youve prior said youre the closest to respond

I didn't go to woke school to develop this opinion, it's self-evident if you look at how fashion and society have developed in human history. Do not take my disinterest in shaming you for approval, you're ignorant for not having arrived at the logical conclusion yourself, and for not noticing that "speaking up on others' behalf" is in fact how we've arrived to the beautiful modern society where kink websites, being gay, being a woman, being non-white, and so on are all socially acceptable. Ignorance is not an uncommon thing and isn't deserving of abuse, but acting like you're immune to it is.