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Advice to the so called Doms

SirPanther SirPanther​(dom male)​{Dominant }
16 hours ago • Jul 6, 2026
If someone is dumb enough to answer a message that reads what you said , is not using the brain he or she was born with .
So you got a letter from a total stranger, that reads, hey you sub be ready and hold your legs up ,I will be there in 15 minutes , Will you open the door ?
I am sure you won't open the door !
So sending a reply to that type of message , is opening the door for a stranger to come in .
I can't explain it any better !
Sex Before Dinner Sex Before Dinner​(sub female)​{SBD}Verified Account
12 hours ago • Jul 7, 2026
Sex Before Dinner​(sub female)​{SBD}Verified Account • Jul 7, 2026
SirPanther wrote:

So who's is to blame ?
The blame is on the person who send the reply and this guy feels he is in and will start giving orders , barking or running his mouth !?


⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️ That right there is victim blaming!! How about you blame the asshole for being an asshole!

So, by your logic, replying back with "HEY! ASSHOLE! FUCK OFF" makes it her fault. What if it was rape? Using your argument, if a woman walks down the street in clubbing clothes, it would be her fault for anything bad happening because she could have parented it by not dressing that way.

Is that what you are saying? Because thats how it's reading.
SirPanther SirPanther​(dom male)​{Dominant }
5 hours ago • Jul 7, 2026
If a message was sent to tell him to back off , that's no problem.
And then block him .
Just don't keep giving him the idea that's ok for him to bark orders by keep sending him a reply !
You keep sending a reply he will keep coming back .
Then it is your fault for keep getting his messages.
Just ignore him by blocking him .
Don't compare a woman walking on the streets with this situation.
Getting a message you still safe for not being confronted in a chat !
I am not blaming a woman getting attacked on the streets and don't tell me is the same as this situation we arguing about ,, because it is not , it is a totally different, synario ! A woman on the streets don't have this option !
To me, someone online in a chat group is getting an inappropriate message , has options, and is safe to block this idiot !
And if you are still talking to this idiot, then yes, it is your fault .


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