lambsone
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4 months ago •
Dec 8, 2023
Deep Throat Advice and Technique
Does anyone have advice or techniques to share about successful deep throating? I have been practicing with an 8.5 in. Dildo but can only get it in 3 inches before I start gagging or throwing up. I don't know how those porn chick's take a man all the way down their throat and remain cool and calm while doing it. I've tried laying my tongue down so it doesn't block the dildo from advancing but once my throat is open, I start gagging. I have tried to inch it slowly, letting the gag reflex subside before pushing in a little more and stopping to let myself get used to it, but I still can't get past 3 inches. Are there any tricks or anything that can help? Or should I just keep practicing and hoping it'll get better over time?
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Literate Lycan(dom male)
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4 months ago •
Dec 8, 2023
Definitely not my skill set although I would enjoy the benefits on the receiving end.
 A few fantastic ladies have provided various advice in the past. I recall one advice was to use your toothbrush on the back of your tongue and throat to slowly acclimate your gag reflexes over time while brushing your teeth each night.
All the best. |
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Belle de jour{submissive}
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4 months ago •
Dec 8, 2023
Oh yes- pull up a chair I love this topic ⭐️
So much is about breathing-
If you have allergies pls take a med or spray-- Your nose is most important. Before session I do deny food to ensure i am able to give my best. There is amazing lube that can help- Make sure it is meant or oral- Do not use any numbing agents /Read bottles. You owe yourself and partner to know the contents. I like the brand CAKE. Find your "thing" the move that you are comfortable with positionally. Start with what you are confident with. show off if that makes you happy- Askinh him.. begging him for instruction will make both of you very happy. I know some play with a dildo to prepare oi find the are veey rough- use lube. Do focus on a length and STAY THERE with it- breathe thru it. Me?? I would but an buzzy to inside to offset the challenge.. Just an idea Before a date perhaps you can ask your partner what type or oral he likes. Talking about time together and goals is SEXY. Not everyone needs to go to FF right away. Enjoy the night. Communicate during... Try dropping your shoulder soff the end of the bed and have your use you that way - He will know what to do ; -) Breathe and experiment- Don't quit!! Welcome to DM me- I love this topic |
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aPeepingMom(sub female)
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4 months ago •
Dec 8, 2023
A few suggestions that have worked for me:
- Focus less on how deep and focus more on how long you can hold it before you start gagging. Practice that over and over and over again, until you can push just a little deeper and a little longer each time. - Try pleasuring yourself with one hand while you hold the dildo with the other. I've found that the more aroused I am, the more I am able to take down my throat. It's probably less about the arousal and more about the distraction, because the key is to relax your throat. The more you think about it, the more tense you'll likely be. Good luck! |
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Belle de jour{submissive}
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4 months ago •
Dec 8, 2023
Re: Oh yes- pull up a chair I love this topic ⭐️ Belle de jour wrote: So much is about breathing-
If you have allergies pls take a med or spray-- Your nose is most important. Before session I do deny food to ensure i am able to give my best. There is amazing lube that can help- Make sure it is meant or oral- Do not use any numbing agents /Read bottles. You owe yourself and partner to know the contents. I like the brand CAKE. Find your "thing" the move that you are comfortable with positionally. Start with what you are confident with... show off if that makes you happy- Ask him.. BEG him for instruction will make both of you very happy. I know some play with a dildo to prepare oi find the are very rough- use lube. Do focus on a length and STAY THERE with it- breathe thru it- you will have better results if you become one with the girth in your mouth. Circle it with your tongue. Me?? I would but an buzzy vibe inside me to offset the challenge.. Just an idea Before a date perhaps you can ask your partner what type or oral he likes. Talking about time together and goals is SEXY. Not everyone needs to go to FF right away. Enjoy the night. Ask him to communicate during...so sexy either praise or.. other 
* Parting idea....Try dropping your shoulders off the end of the bed and have your use you that way - He will know what to do ; -) Breathe and experiment- Don't quit baby girl! Welcome to DM me- I love this topic |
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shebakesalot(sub female)
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4 months ago •
Dec 8, 2023
aPeepingMom wrote: Focus less on how deep and focus more on how long you can hold it before you start gagging. Practice that over and over and over again, until you can push just a little deeper and a little longer each time.
^^^ THIS! Toothbrush trick. And when doing it with an actual cock, ask your partner if you can take control for a little bit so you're not just SURPRISED with deep throating. A lot of it is mental. Don't think about gagging cause then you're going to gag. Humming also helps. |
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Aquarius Dom(dom male)
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4 months ago •
Dec 8, 2023
I have posted a training guide on my blog that might help you @lambsone
I hope it helps ! It’s a great skill to acquire but please just be aware it’s not for everyone! Oh and remember to breathe through your nose ! |
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Bunnie
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4 months ago •
Dec 8, 2023
My advice? Let go of your fear of gagging. The more you try not to, the more your throat constricts. You may even come to enjoy it
As for any other suggestions, I’ll leave it with the others who’ve already covered it. |
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I'mME
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4 months ago •
Dec 8, 2023
As I wrote another place, I expect a Dom to be involved in practice for this type of activity.
I don't see how intimacy can be built unless a Dom is involved. |
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Sweetlydepraved(masochist female){Owned}
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4 months ago •
Dec 8, 2023
I agree with Bunnie, embrace the gag. It’s hot! I just gag right on through it and if I puke well eventually it all comes up and no more puking. Breathe around it by opening the sides of your mouth, that takes more practice than anything. Your headspace is very important, try some interaction with your D before or during. I have been known to have no hands orgasms from throat fucking, that’s wild! Remember the entire thing is fun and enjoyable and there is no benchmark to attain, just immerse!
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