Cumming multiple times vs only cumming a few times

Am I robbing myself of a greater build up/experience, my partner allows me to cum multiple times during a session (ok so maybe I don’t always cue him in as I’m selfish 😂) anyways if I were to communicate more and ask him to limit it would the build up and release be more extreme? What’s your take on this?

I find if my partner prevents me from cumming anytime I feel the sensation when they finally do allow me to cum it is way more intense for me and my cum output is so much more forceful and alot more volume if I am made to wait

The build up is enjoyable by some, but not all where as the action after being held off has been known to be greater.
Think of it as a pressure valve. Let out a bit every now n then gets the job done, but let thenpreasure build and its like an explosion with a quick decrease of pressure and some say can cause damage to the valve.