In a monogamous relationship
i am a newly collared sub that is new to the community. i have been living and loving the 24/7 lifestyle with my Dom. He has shown me how a worthy Dominant makes me feel. He has encouraged and supported me as i learn about and connect with my submissive nature.
In my vanilla past, i always felt a sense of sexual insecurity and boredom. The sexual communication was never there with my partners and they never took the time to understand my desires. i do not think i even took the time to understand my own desires.
For the longest time i wanted to meet a man, a sexually experienced and Dominant Man, that could help me explore my sexuality. A Man that made me feel safe enough to open up to Him about my sexual preferences and to teach me things i had never tried before.
Then i met my Sir :) He has been everything i asked for and now i know how much i enjoy serving my Dominant. Serving Him and pleasing Him brings me so much joy. i have never felt so understood and accepted by any Man in my life like i feel with Him.
i felt so lost in my vanilla life for so long...now i know why.
100% Submissive
94% Masochist
91% Rope Bunny
88% Voyeur
67% Slave
67% Exhibitionist
62% Primal (Prey)
55% Experimentalist
37% Vanilla
It is funny to think about the things i thought were a hard no, when i first started exploring this life with my Dom. i thought i would not enjoy wearing a leash, but it turns out i definitely do :) i thought i would not enjoy being beaten with a cane, but i sure do enjoy that too. So i have learned that maybe i should not say no right away to some things until i have tried them, so i know for sure.
i have officially transitioned from trainee to sub! i could not be happier to serve my Dom as His sub. The sky is the limit for us.