Today is the first day of the tasks I have set for myself to do a self tie each day for 30 days. Todays subject is feet.
Im one of those people who doesnt mind having my feet played with. Actually I lie I quite like it. I find it quite sensual and erotic. Extremely intimate.
Its a funny thing having your feet bound but your legs free. You still have very little movement and mobility but with the disguise of not being too pinned down 😈
Today I had a helper. Im sure she will feature in many pics here. My bestie. My fur baby. My spaz lol.
One thing I love incorporating with my ties is weaving. It makes it looks so pretty. Granted todays tie is a bit messy but thats the idea of this challenge. To explore and refine. Im using a nylon rope. I dont recommend this type of rope as it is "slippery" meaning knots can move and it also coils and twists as you pull it through. BUT I bought this rope ages ago and it is only about 3mm I beleive. I find thicker ropes for my feet are "too big to fit in here" (bonus points for movie reference if you know it). Its also cheap and easy to find at any hardware store. Additional though one thing I love is exploring different textures of different materials on my skin. This one can (and has in the past) caused rope burn but right before that point its enjoyable.
Now for the tie
Not all bunny's self tie and thats completely fine. You dont have to love the act of creating to enjoy the feeling of enclosure and securedness (new word). But being a good Bunny or Bottom means knowing your body, speaking up and advising when something feels not quite right. Your Top/Rigger/Dom is not a mind reader. Know how your body reacts. For me every single time I do rope it creates a warmth through my entire body and I soon end up feeling quite hot. Like an internal furnace. Additionally just because one bunny might be used to blue limbs doesnt mean it is right for you. There are no extra brownie points for staying in rope the longest. It depends on your experience, flexibility and even skin colour. I tend to feel the lack of blood flow way before it is noticable. Know your limits, speak up if with a partner. Because it can take time to get you out. If you wait till your last moment to say you need out, then it will need cutting the rope. This tie for me, I took the pics then got it off, my toes where just starting to blue. This was not one to sit in. Some I can wear for a while but knowing how it felt I needed to be conscious of the time.
You have ligaments around the back of the heal/leg to be aware of. Make sure to massage and wriggle the are you have just tied. Allow the blood to flow back and for me the coolness returns. If with a partner this is a nice time for gentle touching and aftercare
Enjoy your after marks (sorry should have repainted my toes lol)
