Welcome back, dear reader! I hope you are well on this Friday! Did you recover from your food coma from yesterday? No? At least it’s almost the weekend!
My post today may seem a bit random and out of sorts, because I don’t have a specific thing in mind. I’m just writing in a very train of thought kind of way, so there may be weird, or even nonexistent transitions with topics. So... let’s begin!
I have been a part of this site and community for a few days now, and I am very happy that I found it. Everyone, literally every single person that I have talked to, has been so nice and friendly. I love it. Coming into it, I was nervous, intimidated, maybe even scared. I’m a shy and nervous person by design, so stepping into something so completely new and foreign to me was a challenge. And I’m happy I did it!
I have learned a lot in my short time here. Like the difference between dom and domme. In my mind, I had never really added a gender to it. If you were the dominate one, then dom it was! Whoops! Luckily I haven’t made too big of a fool of myself with that.
Last night, I also learned that there are, in fact, male littles. I had no idea! I don’t think I have ever met one, and apparently they are not overly common, but they are out there! And that’s pretty awesome.
I don’t really understand the little concept fully yet though. Admittedly, it’s something that I haven’t researched much since it isn’t something that directly relates to me, so it isn’t a huge priority for a full dissection yet. But if anyone who has little tendencies wants to help explain it to me, please message me! I am fascinated by this mechanic, I just haven’t gotten that far!
I have also learned that twins don’t argue about which of them is the accident. That means that I’m possibly a terrible person for wondering that. As an accident myself, I’m ok with it.
I spent a lot of my day yesterday wasting the time of a couple scammers. So that’s good clean holiday fun! While I’m on my search for self discovery and enlightenment in the BDSM world, I was lead to a few places before I came here. A few different sites and most of them seem to be full of scammers and spammers and bots and all the undesirable things that people hate about doing anything online. But if I’m feeling fun or just bored, I’ll indulge them a bit. Like right now, I have about 5 different scammers posing as dommes (used it right! I think...) calling me slut and slave and all these colorful words. I’m waiting for them to start the process of trying to get money. That’s when I’ll have some real fun. You see, I work in finance. Specifically credit card fraud. So I’m careful to never provide any info that’s valid and I’m even using a throw away email to talk to them. But I enjoy wasting their time. I figure, the more time I waste, the fewer people they can actually scam. So... making the world a better place? Nailed it!
