Pheonix J(sub female)

Just me

My journey is a road I travel most of the time with friends by my side. Some days I walk alone, others I hold someone's hand. This is my journey on cage. If you really want to know about me go back 2 years ago to my first blog. Enjoy

Friends

5 years ago. September 16, 2019 at 3:56 PM

It's funny this online world. You make "friends" here but what does that really mean.

I got your back?

I will stand by you no matter what?

I will pick you up when your down?

I will warn you of a predator when I see one?

I will love you like my family (ok ok some family can be left out)

And no matter what battle you go into I will be there for you

Lately I've seen some things that are kind of irritating. People taking sides or talking to people that have hurt one of their friends. You were there to pick them up and then you befriend the one who pulled the rug out from under them. I dont know just a rant

This world of cyber talk has made it so easy to forget there are real people typing. Yea there are always 2 sides to a story but as a friend its not my place to judge, or be swayed either way.

I have an amazing friend here.she and I have shared a lot in a very short time. She never asked me to do this, but had told me a story part of her past. It involved a friend of hers. Anyway I listened we then moved on to some of our goofy banter and I thought nothing else of it. Then I go to chat one day just to be the wall flower I was 2 years ago. See people talking and almost get the nerve to talk when the door opens and here comes the person my friend was talking about.to me. I left. I didn't feel the need to listen or ask her side because my friend is the one I stand by no questions asked.

There is a freaking point i swear.

When a friend confides in you it's yours to carry always, even when the friendship falls apart, when a friend warns you, you should always listen and when they are right apologize and know they will still pick you up and dust you off. Be the friend you want to someone to be to you . You get what you give.

So to my friends I promise

I will listen and heed your advice even when I dont really want to.

I will stand beside you always

I will pick you up when you fall (and yes even pick the lint and straggler strings off your backside so you dont look like a fool)

I will go to war with you, cry with you, laugh and giggle with you, but most of all your secrets are safe with me because you are my friend nothing will ever change that.

To the gem I found and the tigress who I dragged (not really but hahahahaha see) here 😉 you are my peeps my girls I will go to the ends of the world for you! Thank you both for making my life so much better by being part of it.

Morley(sub female){Max Sterne} - Oh how so very true this is.... unfortunately! Be your true self always and your real friends will always be real. No one can 'hide' their true colours for too long! Great post ❤️

5 years ago

Pheonix J(sub female) - Thanks. This caged world is hard to navigate and finding a true friend can be just as hard as finding the one. True colors always come out even years down the line

5 years ago

TreasureMe(sub female){Consumed} - You are a true doll in my life too hun! I value you just as well. Thank you for being there the way you have. I couldn't imagine my life without you now. *hugs*

5 years ago

Princess Sparkalina(sub female) - True friends are hard to find indeed. I am thankful for some of the people people I have met here in the wilds of Cage-land. Some that I feel know me well, some that know me a little. I want to leave people better than I found them-always. I am not perfect by any stretch of the imagination. What I have found is this internet world and screenshots make life super tricky sometimes.
Be a friend and you will make a friend 💖

5 years ago

Pheonix J(sub female) - Exactly

5 years ago

Princess Sparkalina(sub female) - And people I never ever thought would share screenshots, have done that.
Quite the dichotomy-be open to friends yet guarded at the same time. I wish you all the best. :) glad you have found some friends on here :)

5 years ago

Princess Sparkalina(sub female) - I will also say that I can and do value loyalty, however, I have also made some treasured friendships with people who may have a history with each other. And that is true here and outside the walls of Cage/internet.

5 years ago

ADIDAS - I am the exact same way Ms. PJ..... A fiercely loyal friend to a fault. It seems the fault is my own however as I don't have but 1 in person friend, my BFF that's really my true soulmate but it's hard for me to find friends like me. Loyal, not a back stabber, wants conversation that's a bit deeper than what's on sale at ULTA this week or the great coupons in the paper. Who died, recent ailments of theirs, mine, anyone's life as long as they're talking about it. Ugh! I'm not on that level with my other 55- 65 year olds typically.... And here on Cage I've made a couple friends but once they find their Doms, which I understand that's ultimately what subbies are here for, I am happy for them, of course, but I know I won't be hearing from them until that relationship is over. That makes me sad. I wanna be a forever friend, not easily forgotten.

Sorry for getting all maudlin on this post. I guess it just hit a raw nerve. I have the important people that matter in my life AND the friends that I have made.

Thank you Ms. PJ for this thoughtful post!

Ms. A. 🐸

5 years ago

Pheonix J(sub female) - Ms A, i know very well what you mean. I have an amazing friend in RL and. It to many others because I dont trust. I've met some amazing people here as well.
It makes me sad when said friends drop off for their Dom because I believe as a sub you have to have sub friends.
In my eyes any good Dom will want them to maintain friendships because that's part of who they are.
Now dont get me wrong the initially its always about the Dom and training especially for her to understand she needs to depend on him and turn to him and trust in them.
Not by any means excluding Dommes here or Male subs please dont feel that way. My brain. Just works it's own way ;)

5 years ago

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