I don't pay attention to much, I live this life with my head down trying to get thru the days unnoticed. I don't want to stand out. So tell me why I got a job in a management position and I'm the go to for everything at work. I'm also the one who gets the blame when yhe crap hits the fan.
Even here I try to fly under the radar. I cheer for relationships, I take it to heart when they dont work. This place has become my safe haven. I have seen some posts lately that kinda rubbed me the wrong way.
First ANY post I do is always from a subs stand point I can not speak for a Dom/me point as I am not that. Now we subs tend to write and put it all out there. Doms not so much. My guess is their strong persona may be questioned by others. None of my blogs were ever intended to say things like ghosting are only one sided it happens both ways.
Also are we really a community of nonjudgment? I think not. I have been told many things and always say how the hell would you know you have barely spoken to me. So the question "What kind of sub are you" I answer the same it's what I see myself as. I know I will evolve and adapt to whatever relationship I am in but no one has the right to put me in a box! Just as I dont have the right to put a Dom/me into a box.
We have people here are just dabbling in this life and ones who are extreme. Some of their choices may not be mine but I cheer them on for what they and their other half have chosen. Stop being so judgmental and maybe learn from the community. If I hadn't taken the time to learn what Intrested me I wouldnt know that I am a small piece of every sub label there is.
To the new kids slow down enjoy the ride! Life is about smelling the Rose's and learning the lessons the things around are willing to teach. Learn all you can and become the best you! Remember we dont dont fit into a box, the vanilla world judges us already so why do the same here.
None of your predetermined shoes fit me, so I will continue my walk barefoot and happy, and keep being the cheerleader and student. I wont become stagnat by thinking I know it all.
