ErosRising(dom male){Hekate}

The Phoenix - Eros' Rising

"Passion has overthrown tyrants and freed prisoners and slaves. Passion has brought justice where there was savagery. Passion has created freedom where there was nothing but fear. Passion has helped souls rise from the ashes of their horrible lives and build something better, stronger, more beautiful.”

WTF!!???

3 years ago. May 11, 2021 at 5:02 AM

Okay, so I have been gone for a few days handling my youngest son coming home and my oldest son and his girl getting ready to move in because of a shit ton of family drama to see cage drama.....

Literaly...WTF!!!??

Let me start with this, if one of my posts caused a problem and triggered something in someone, I am truly sorry that it happened. I am not sorry for the post itself as this is my outlet. It is a place for my thoughts and my opinions and the things that I like to talk about.

Again, if something I post causes a trigger, then my apologies. But to be fair, none of us are going to know everyone’s triggers and I would expect that only a few knows mine.

If I am going to write about something that I know may trigger something with someone then it will be known up front. However, if I am just posting a funny (or something I think is funny) there will be no trigger warning.

I am not being insensitive, disrespectful, or bullying anyone.

Another thing that I would like to say is that if you have an issue with something that I post, please feel free to contact me to discuss it. We are, or at least should be, all adults here.

Stop making assumptions. Remember that when you assume something, you make an ass out of u and me. If anyone isn’t sure then ask, it is the adult thing to do.

I am not attacking or shaming anyone. I have deep admiration for all who post. This is not High School. I graduated almost 30 years ago. (Yes I am old...jk)

I could tell everyone here about my past and what I have seen and been through. I am sure there are others here that have been through similar, if not worse. But those things make us who we are. They made me who I am. I chose to see the best in people and not the worse. I chose to see that each day is a gift. Not just each day but each moment.

Some I have shared parts of my story to and others a lot of it. They can tell you that I have been through and seen some stuff. I am still going through some stuff as you can see at the beginning of this post.

Bottom line is this. We are all individuals. We all have stuff. That does not give us a right to be ugly towards one another. It does not give us the right to bully one another. None of us are better than anyone else. (This includes me)

Again, if anything I have ever posted triggered something, I am sorry that it did. It was unintentional. And if anyone wants to not follow me or my writings, or be upset or pissed off because of that without coming to me directly, then that’s on you, not me.

<3 ~Eros

Morley(sub female){Max Sterne} - I am NOT religious... But I will say AMEN to this because it's fucking spot ON!!!! You do you...I will do Me....and as most families go, we probably won't get along or agree, but hey, we're a community!!! ❤️

Great post! Wishing you and Yours all the best 🤍🌼🤍

3 years ago

ErosRising(dom male){Hekate} - Thank you. And yes, we do not need to agree all the time or get along all the time. But we can still be decent human beings to one another. We can also talk it out.

3 years ago

Morley(sub female){Max Sterne} - Again... Agree 100%. You're a good soul! 🤍

3 years ago

OraclePollon(sub female){NotYours} - Dontcha know while you were gone, we all decided to blame you.

But really. Hope you had a great few days getting family sorted.

3 years ago

ErosRising(dom male){Hekate} - LMAO - Thanks I can appreciate the humor.

The last few days have been peaks and valleys for sure. Now instead of one son coming home, I will have 2. Not getting in to the personal side of things but I do know that what ever is done in darkness will come to light and that is why my boys are coming home.

3 years ago

Boo78(sub female) - I don't really know what blog started this but people come here to express themselves freely. Telling you that you can't is a very passive aggressive form of bullying too! Those that know you 'get' you. We all come with some degree of baggage and that's life.... 100% some have had a nastier journey than others but hell we are all still here and that says a lot. There are a lot of people that enjoy upsetting others and intentionally do that especially in DM's, you are not one of them! No justification needed... There are bigger things going on in the world right now. Love and light to everyone 🌎🌸💡

3 years ago

Ingénue{VK} - We can be responsible for what we post. We can't be responsible for other people's reactions. If it's not aimed at anyone and not breaking Ts and Cs then no drama no blame.

3 years ago

My Dear{Trust} - Best response, hands down!

3 years ago

LaVieEnRose(sub female){Kintsugi} - A-men...I think this idea that you have to cognisant of everyone all the time isn’t fair, it’s exhausting. I mean you use common sense but beyond that you can’t be responsible for everyone all the time cause as Boo said we all have baggage of some kind and at that rate then no one would be able to discuss anything. And if someone has an issue with something said people need to stop the high school passive aggressive whispering and just message the other person directly and speak to them cause you’d be amazed what can be learned with just directly speaking to someone.

3 years ago

Boo78(sub female) - And you may find you actually like the person which is way nicer than drama and much better for you ❤️

3 years ago

Jlicious(sub female) - Agree 100%, very well said . This is what happens when you step away fir few days 😂

3 years ago

HEAVEN'S STARCHILD(switch female) - I love this!!! I may have totally missed something here. There are times i will state TW to give the person the option of reading or not(plus im always taking others feelings into consideration). One post I took down 2x because of the depth of it and is def a tw for some. After reading this, I will post it, I will not let the fear of how it will affect a person anymore. It stops my growth and healing process within myself. Enough is enough.

3 years ago

HEAVEN'S STARCHILD(switch female) - praying all is well with the family ((HUGS))

3 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - I got a taste of an empty house for a couple of years. And then that went away, it's been some adjustment. Not being free to do what I want when I want where I want was not the easiest to deal with. Good luck with the Full House

3 years ago

ErosRising(dom male){Hekate} - Thank you and truthfully I wouldn’t have it any other way. My boys need me and I them so it is a blessing to have them home.

3 years ago

SweetSirRendering(sub female) - this was well done. i am sorry you had to come back to all of this. i know you had no intentions to hurt anyone and would have resolved anything with an open heart had you been made aware. i am sorry you were called out publicly like that, especially in that context. i am happy you are in a strong place and happier still that your strength is holding your family (sons) together and again. so many hugs!

also, the places you inserted humor into your difficult day WAS funny. thanks for the laughs

3 years ago

ErosRising(dom male){Hekate} - And thank you for the support shown through the difficulties. And you are right, I would never hurt anyone knowingly and would have and still would resolve with open mind and heart. As stated in my post, if I would have been messaged I would have listened and worked through any issues with any post I have done. There was no intent for any ill will on my part.
Blessings and hugs back to you as well as everyone else.
Now time to head to Minneapolis again.

3 years ago

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The Phoenix - Eros' Rising

WTF!!???

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